[Sally12]

My husband had an affair with a mutual friend of ours and a very good friend of our best door neighbours. He is very repentant. However I see her everywhere. At the school in the queue in the bank etc. We live in a rural area. It is impossible to avoid her. How do I cope? We are back together trying to work it out with the aid of marriage counselling. She is so different to me. Exceptionally good looking, blonde bubbly, vivacious (his words).

[Fr_Chuck]

Remember she is as much at fault as the husband, but husband always had the ability to say no, thus it is not just their fault. After telling them off I would ignore them, not speak to them if I saw them and make every effort just to advoid them

[shallidivorse]

I am in the same situation, my husband says he felt alone and depressed, he turned to a woman at work, I found out, we are trying to work it out, she is still there, I am now worried because she lives 3 doors away from his works, as I call it, she's got her bed in the carpark.
I found out a couple of days after christmas, this has been very tough, he wants to keep the family together, I just want to leave everything behind and get away.I love my husband, that's why Im still there, we also have 2 children age 10 & 13.