[tammywatkins]

Bf and I broke up three weeks ago... have done strict no contact for a week.

However, my cell/mobile phone was unlocked in my bag and by mistake called him without me knowing.

He sent me a message saying, is everything fine as I called and just noticed this

What should I do?

Do I reply?

If yes... what do I say??
If yes... how long do I wait to reply??

Thanks

[Sdjosh]

Hmm... do you reply?

Can you give more insight as to why you broke up? Do you want to work it out? Just need more info.

[Lowtax4eva]

If your serious about not wanting to keep any contact just send a text message and say you pressed a button by mistake and it dialed him, all is well. Something short, or you don't really have to do anything.

[tammywatkins]

Yes would def like to work it out.

I have posted on previous threads... please check them out.

Basically together a year and a half and lived together for 6 months... however at beginning of relationship his best friend tried it with me and I told my (ex) boyfriend... he cut his best friend off and all his friends with him because his boyfriend is always central to the scene and was offended by what he did...

However over time its seems he has grudged me because of what he did and that I was in some way to blame and felt he can't have a social life if with me because he can't handle me and his best friend in same space even though I always encouraged him to meet up with them etc.

Am really trying to follow all your advice.

Last week he moved back home and is living the single life with all his friends, parties, poker, guys nights etc and I am moving back in 6 weeks.

I was extremely heart broken as he really made me believe he loved me (telling me ten times a day at least) and that we would have a future together and as he said himself he was running away from me and all this.

[diya]

If you want him back, well send a reply text" hey I am OK... hope all is well with you too.. (don't tell him about the mistake dialling)... and then go about your business... If he is interested, he'll get back to you sooner or later... but you don't do anything... patience.. is the key word...

[tammywatkins]

TALANIMAN, JISER, CHUFF, EMOPUK, SDJOSH where are you all??

Won't he think I did it to trick him into talking to me if I ignore the fact that it was done by mistake??

[Sdjosh]

Im not sure what to tell you. He moved out and is living a single life right now.

I don't want to tell you to contact him because he seems like he is doing his own thing and you don't want to put yourself in a position to get hurt more.

But you said that you would like to make this work. So its up to you.

[talaniman]

A brief "sorry wrong number" text is enough for now. Stay on your path. Lock the keypad or lose his number.