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Actually, on her other thread, I told her that she should have told her doctors, and she said that the doctor who gave her the EC also gave her the BC... but it's unclear if one doc gave her EC then BC, while the other 3 ECs were given by different docs.
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That was my initial reaction when she said she had taken FOUR EC's in the past month... I mean really, its so simple to walk into a clinic and get an EC. She could have done just that... and found herself four different clinics.
I can't imagine what that could do to a teenage body... crazy. |
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 Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
I'm not Saying I shouldn't have showed her. But Like, Idk, I asked a couple friends of mine and they said she should know. Because to me This is basicially backstabbing Sorry about being so late to post.. I just got home from Football |
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1. If you and alty started a "I hate sneezy club"... I personally wouldn't care very much... as if you two hate me, then it's not really worth my time to talk to the either of you. If you two decided to stop talking to me all together, then yes, I would want an explanation... but I believe we told you on the other thread to give her an explanation, with something along the lines of: I want you to stop confusing me and quit leading me on... and if you like me, then we need to figure something out, but if nothing will come of it, then I want us to be friends and nothing else.
Also, the example you provided is moot as you didn't start a "I hate her" club... in fact, you didn't say that at all. You asked a question, and we gave an opinion. Not once through the entire thread did you say something bad about her... we did. So a better example would have been, if you two started a club called "sneezy" and people on there said bad things about me... and in that case, I wouldn't care either. Did my friends actually say bad things about me? No? Then I don't give a flip. 2. It's not backstabbing, as you're not hurting her. In fact, she's hurting you, and you were looking for answers. As I said in #1, you didn't talk trash about her... we did. In fact, I believe I called her crazy. If you talked behind her back, that's one thing. 3. One point I wanted to get at was the fact that instead of her actually listening to... oh I don't know... 15 people saying that she's doing something wrong to you, she gets on, and starts defending herself. That's fine. That's normal. However, somewhere along the line, she should perhaps ask you what's wrong.. Maybe ask you why you posted something like this... if what she's doing is bothering you in some way? But has she? No. She's posting away about how much she hates everyone on this thread and that we're crazy for thinking the way we do. You're 15... I get that. My brother's 15... so half of what we say may not make sense to you, and when we tell you that the girl's no good for you, you're thinking that we don't know what we're talking about. I've been there... so I won't get on you too hard about "listening" to us... but I'm going to tell you that I wish I had found this forum when I was 15 and going through the motions of being in high school and chasing girls.. . I learned the hard way... and chances are, you will too. Hope you at least take a small glimpse at what we're telling you. |
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Originally Posted by HistorianChick
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Well, thank you. I appreciate that... but this has nothing to do with being smart. This has everything to do with "experience" (although I've had very little compared to the others here) and just looking at it from the outside.
Guy, I feel like if you had a friend that was going through what you're going through right now, you'd give them advice on how to talk to the girl, perhaps to ask her what's going on, etc. But because it's YOU who's in the driver's seat... you're having a hard time. I'm not here for an argument... I'm just here to give you my opinion on this situation. Clearly, if you want to argue with me, then you think you're in the right, and nothing will change... you just posted for poops and giggles... and if that's the case, then my hat's off to you. I've done my duty to give you my opinion and advice as to what I think you should do in this situation. I've never been in your situation myself, but I have seen many friends go through it, and it usually never ends up on a happy note. Your choices are simple: 1. Change nothing. She will be with her boyfriend. You will be there. You will have the same problems. 2. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and don't just sit there and let her tell you "I like you too...but I love my boyfriend." Talk to her and come to a decision as to what's going to happen, and be decisive in what you want. There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a doormat. You can be nice and firm in what you want at the same time. a. You tell her what you want. You're firm in what you want. She agrees or disagrees. Either way, something changes, whether it be you two are friends and ONLY friends, or she actually follows through with the fact that she likes you. Will this end in happiness? Who knows? But at least you tried something. b. You don't tell her what you want. In fact, you tell her, "I like you" and that's it... and she ends up telling you how things are going to be. Then go back to #1. |
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Why can't their Be a C: They break up and I live happily ever after?
IDK what I want really at the moment, Like I said Earler I want her to be happy but at the same time I do really want her to Break up, I was really never the ladies type of person. Never really talked to them in Middle School besides maybe 3-4 They really never talked to me. The way I saw it My life was heading towards World Of Warcraft and lots of masturbating. Well then I met her, and I guess it felt like a rejuvanieted feeling. It felt like.Hm... Maybe a nobody like myself actually has a chance" Yes I did make my moves on other girls sometimes and everytime i did i would fail and then those feelings for her would get stronger until the point to like I just can't let go. Like I REALLY wanted something to happen between me and her and maybe JUST maybe my trip this summer could at least given me a chance with someone.And well, u know, the whole BF thing happened and i was totally and utterly shocked. I wasn't mad at her because really You all do make a point He's Closer I'm Not I just lucked out. But everyone's telling me ohh just let go man! Well I can't really, U don't understand How increadibly hard it would be for me to just...be friends. And I guess in one of her posts she was "I don't do Long Distance Relationships... Thier too hard" so either 2 things can happen A: She only said that trough Temper because you guys got on her B: She really does mean it and my only chance in hell is to move there when I'm 18 Idk, I'll repost once I talk to her and maybe I can persuade her to tell her side of the story Like I just did |
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You know... at 15, I was the girl who'd never had a boyfriend.
I fell for a guy, and I was ecstatic when he liked me back! We started dating, and I dated him all through high school. I completely regret that. I wish I had had more friends, and spent more time with groups of people, guys AND girls, rather than committing all my time to one person who had no more idea what he wanted out of life than I did. Then I got pregnant. He got scared. I placed the baby for adoption, and he broke up with me shortly afterwards, because "he couldn't deal with how sad I always was--why couldn't I just be happy like I used to be" Seriously--LDRs suck. I had 2 in college, and you never really trust the other person, and you feel guilty when you go out and have fun, especially if any members of the opposite sex are involved. You're 15! You have plenty of time! Learn to be friends with girls--you have no idea how important that is! |
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Guy, I'll put in my two cents. I was that girl, I was the one who was always looking for the next best thing even when I had it pretty good already. I was a major flirt, I had absolutely no shame. I cheated on pretty much every boyfriend I ever had, the only person I've ever been faithful to is my husband, and I always will. This girl doesn't want to lose you, she's stringing you along so that you're still in the shadows when she breaks up with her boyfriend. I'm sure she likes you as a friend, I'm also sure she's attracted to you, but she won't be faithful to anyone until she's grown up enough to realize how much her actions hurt other people. I left allot of broken hearts in my wake, I wish I could go back and tell them that I'm sorry, I was young, I went through allot as a child and I didn't mean it, that's all fine and good, but I still hurt them just like she's hurting you.
Being 15 is hard, being a teen at all is hard. So many emotions, hormones, it's enough to drive you crazy. Listen to us, we've all been there and maybe we can help you get through it too, with much more wisdom and insight than we had. Sneezy - If I ever started a thread about you it would be an "I love Sneezy" site. You know that honey. |
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