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    #61

    Apr 4, 2013, 09:36 AM
    Is he interested in a 23 year old college student (5 years older than he is)? That might very well be the bigger question here. Have you had boyfriends in the past?

    Is he likewise learning disabled?

    I suspect a track, football and lacrosse "star" is beating off prospective girlfriends with a stick. Is he just being nice to you or is he interested in you as a girlfriend?

    I think if you ask him out you will upset both families - yours and his. What do your parents say about you having a crush on this guy?

    I will join WG in loving Colorado - I liked Boulder best.
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    #62

    Apr 4, 2013, 09:37 AM
    Maybe I dono he might be and no he's not
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    #63

    Apr 4, 2013, 10:04 AM
    I asked 4 questions. Which 2 did you answer?
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    #64

    Apr 4, 2013, 10:11 AM
    The one about him being disabled and him being interested in a 23 year old girl and my parents just tell me to becareful
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    #65

    Apr 4, 2013, 10:21 AM
    I realize you are almost finished with College - what is your major? I know there are lots of Environmental Studies degrees available in Colorado.
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    Apr 4, 2013, 10:23 AM
    I Haven't decided but I want to work with our athletic trainer so Next week I am going to be taking Community cpr and first aid courses so we will see where it takes me but I also do a lot of art
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    #67

    Apr 4, 2013, 10:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Is he interested in a 23 year old college student (5 years older than he is)? That might very well be the bigger question here. Have you had boyfriends in the past?
    No I have not and he might be his ex is in college Love is just a tough thing
    Is he likewise learning disabled?
    No he is not
    explain please your Answer
    I Don't know what you mean
    I suspect a track, football and lacrosse "star" is beating off prospective girlfriends with a stick. Is he just being nice to you or is he interested in you as a girlfriend?
    He thinks I am Awesome because I never miss a game and spoil the teams with goodies and if its someone's birthday a birthday card and gift hand made and lots of good birthday wishes
    I think if you ask him out you will upset both families - yours and his. What do your parents say about you having a crush on this guy?
    My Parents tell me to be careful with who I chose to date and have a crush on because they love me
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    Apr 4, 2013, 11:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I will join WG in loving Colorado - I liked Boulder best.
    Yup, Boulder, and next on my list is Dillon, home of The Little Brown Drug (store). Great Sand Dunes is pretty nice too, especially in May when the creek is full and gives cool relief to hot-sand-burned bare feet. And of course, there's Black Canyon of the Gunnison. Oh, and Wolf Creek Pass. Heck, maybe we should move to CO.

    To aspenchic, just be sure you aren't trying to "buy" his affection with "stuff."
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    Apr 4, 2013, 11:15 AM
    "He thinks I am Awesome because I never miss a game and spoil the teams with goodies and if its someones birthday a birthday card and gift hand made and lots of good birthday wishes"

    I don't understand your relationship with him - you go to all his games. That I "get." But you bring birthday cards and gifts to his team mates?
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    Apr 4, 2013, 11:30 AM
    Not a legal issue but this is a huge difference in terms of where you're at in life. My son is 18 and a senior in high school. I would STRONGLY disapprove if he were dating a 23 year old girl and I would consider something seriously to be wrong with her. Why would a woman old enough to be a senior in college want to be with a boy who's just barely old enough to graduate high school? Find a man your own age.
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    Apr 4, 2013, 11:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    Find a man your own age.
    If you read the more recent posts, you will see it's a lot more complicated than a simple age difference.
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    #72

    Apr 4, 2013, 02:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    To aspenchic, just be sure you aren't trying to "buy" his affection with "stuff."
    I Am not
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    #73

    Apr 4, 2013, 02:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    "He thinks I am Awesome because I never miss a game and spoil the teams with goodies and if its someones birthday a birthday card and gift hand made and lots of good birthday wishes"

    I don't understand your relationship with him - you go to all his games. That I "get." But you bring birthday cards and gifts to his team mates?
    Not only his team mates but him to
    My relationship between him is that I Am his#1Fan And not just his but everyone's
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    #74

    Apr 4, 2013, 02:59 PM
    So there you have it
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    Apr 4, 2013, 03:00 PM
    Post deleted - sorry - problem with my computer and this post was not meant to be in this string. Computer crashed while I was posted and when I logged back in it posted here!
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    #76

    Apr 4, 2013, 03:08 PM
    I Don't have a half sister
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    #77

    Apr 4, 2013, 03:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by aspenchic23 View Post
    I Don't have a half sister
    Sorry, dear - that response was meant to go to another question. It posted in response to your question by accident! I've deleted it now.
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    #78

    Apr 4, 2013, 03:35 PM
    I'm still not understanding what a lady your age sees in a teen. I know as a parent I would be very displeased if you were dating my 18 year old son. You are too old for him. Not even in the same stage of life.
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    #79

    Apr 4, 2013, 03:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    Sorry, dear - that response was meant to go to another question. It posted in response to your question by accident! I've deleted it now.
    Its OK
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    #80

    Apr 4, 2013, 03:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I'm still not understanding what a lady your age sees in a teen. I know as a parent I would be very displeased if you were dating my 18 year old son. You are too old for him. Not even in the same stage of life.
    True but I can dream can't I

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