Ok so there's this guy who's 18 and I am 23. Is it OK for me to have a crush on and possibly date someone who's 5 years younger? Hes so good looking

No, not because of the 5 years, that is nothing, it is because you have to ask. You have a personal doubt and it bothers you or you would not ask this question.

So it will always worry you. Until you are OK with it and do not worry about what anyone would say, then it will not work.

Some people will not want it or think it is wrong, some people will find fault in anything

No if both of you are adults. And since you both are adults, it does not matter, legally fine.

You do not date a guy because he is good looking.

The legal answer is that there is no legal problem.

He may be younger in years but you are interested in him because "he's so good looking" so I suspect you're on the same maturity level.

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There is no question at all.

Not only don't I think there's a question, I don't see there's a problem - but here we are on the legal forum.

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You do not date a guy because he is good looking.

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I Know Hes Also Really Nice And Respectful

Hello a:

You're BOTH adults..

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Hello a:

You're BOTH adults..

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OK so I wouldn't get in trouble

I removed your most recent post since it started a new thread on this same topic. Please post your comments and questions in this thread that you already have going.

How about starting a conversation with him.

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I removed your most recent post since it started a new thread on this same topic. Please post your comments and questions in this thread that you already have going.

How about starting a conversation with him.

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Ok what would be a good convorsation starter

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Ok what would be a good convorsation starter

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"What's your favorite kind of pizza?"
"Which is your favorite sport?"
"Do you have any pets?"
"Which food do you hate the most?"

You're 23 and you don't know if a teenager, someone you are really good friends with, is flirting with you? I'm wondering why a young lady your age would want to date a boy that age. Girls generally mature faster than boys, so I'm not understanding this. Why don't you just ask him.

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"What's your favorite kind of pizza?"
"Which is your favorite sport?"
"Do you have any pets?"
"Which food do you hate the most?"

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I Know he has a dog he plays football and bball and right now Lacrosse

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You're 23 and you don't know if a teenager, someone you are really good friends with, is flirting with you? I'm wondering why a young lady your age would want to date a boy that age. Girls generally mature faster than boys, so I'm not understanding this. Why don't you just ask him.

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I Know he Likes me

He thinks I Am Awesome he's always there for me

Well if you know he likes you what is the problem? You said you don't know if he's flirting with you? He is 18 so you could date him although I don't know why you would want to date an 18 year old. What makes you think you would get in trouble? I suppose if you took him out drinking or gave him alcohol, that would.

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Well if you know he likes you what is the problem? You said you don't know if he's flirting with you? He is 18 so you could date him although I don't know why you would want to date an 18 year old. What makes you think you would get in trouble? I suppose if you took him out drinking or gave him alcohol, that would.

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I Would never let him drink I Have always been a little guy crazy and guys that are my age are either taken or creepers

Does he live at home, is he in high school? How would his parents feel? If he is in High School, that would be kind of weird. Would you go to prom with him, or are you just looking to have fun and not date?

He is a senior in High school his parents are awesome I would go if I had the option but I can't because I have a dance show that night

He hates dark choclate

I don't see any reason why you would get in trouble. If you want to date him, do it.