TraceyAnn14,
You have a very low chance of pregnancy for a several reasons. 1) there was no ejaculation involved 2) you were on your period 3) you had been taking birth control pills for a few weeks and 4) the delivery method (his finger after a hand job) It would be too early for you to know at this point.
You are considered protected on the sugar pills. Most women who use birth control pills use them as their sole form of contraception throughout their cycle. Certainly pregnancy can happen, but when used correctly, birth control pills are quite effective for most women.
As was said, you are usually protected after the first week, but many suggest using another form of protection for the first month to be even safer. It would actually be wise to use another form of birth control along with the pill all the time. It can depend on which type of pill you are using as well. Since you had been on them for a few weeks, that would make the odds even less for a pregnancy.
You will have to wait now until your next period is due and see what happens. But try not too worry too much. I know that is not easy to do, but you really do have a very low chance of being pregnant.
Here are a few sites that will hopefully ease your mind a bit more:
Birth Control Pills - Types, Effectiveness, and Side Effects of Birth Control Pills
Birth Control Pills - Birth Control Pill - The Pill
Birth Control Pill