Originally Posted by
toddman
but like one thing is that i dont think i have great confidence in my self(i have like low confidence) i dont know why i have low confidence but i dooo
But that can be change. Low confidence is not a life sentence. There are a ton of books on the subject and I personally have used advice from Tony Robbins for motivation and confidence for years. The irony is you are actually closer to having great confidence by admitting you have low confidence. Some people don't ever admit that to themselves, you have so you have identified a potential problem you have that comes from with in. All your confidence issues are behaviors that you have learned, usually unconsciously over the years. Like anything else, they can be unlearned and changed to behaviors that suit you better. Sometimes you can change a behavior by just identifying it and saying to yourself, "this behavior does not work for me, I need to change that for better results in the future." Sometimes, it takes a little more work. But just because you are one way now, does not mean you stuck there. In fact you have some momentum now, you are at least asking, the majority of people would never even ask, they would just let it go and suffer. You know there is more out there and more you are capable of, and you are exploring your options to search for answers.
