[ilovepumba]

OK well you should give her some space and say well in a little bit can you get back together with me and let her think about her answer girls hate it when man makes them speed up theur answers. How do I know this because I am a girl.


Bye
Hopes this helps

[ITstudent2006]

To be honest Rusty as many times as you posted this same dilemma I'm starting to think it's a joke! TONS of people have given you advice (all saying leave the wench) and you still act like you're 10 years old and in love.

I hope to god you're not wasteing our time by playing a little joke. If it's not a joke think hard about what the people on here are telling you!

[R1U1S1T1Y1]

Well this wasn't a joke this was for real. And believe me its really hard trying to figure out how to fix things and what she is going to say when you see her cause she will only break up with you in person. And all in all who just have to think positive to get through the night. Because you can't eat, or sleep, and sometimes you might feel like you have to puke but you can't cause you have nothing in your stomach. I'm 17 and this is the first girl I have ever loved I might be young but I know what I want. And this weekend I talked to my girl to try and work things out and of cousre she was mad but all you have to do is try to make her have fun and tell her how she means to you and tell her everything she does it will be okay. People come on this site to get help with there problems and there concerns and to some people the things you tell them they might not like. Like me for example I did not like the answers you guys gave me but I figured out that you shouldn't have to let people or get advice from people to help you with your problems. Everyone is smart and can always find a way themselves. That's why me and my girl are still together because I found out I didn't need anyone's advice. So you I do thank everyone for the advice but people do need to know they can alwys solve things on there own.

[411Help]

I wish you the best of luck.

[R1U1S1T1Y1]

Thanks that means a lot

[talaniman]

I hope it goes well, keep us updated.

[Kkross]

Ah, the long distance relationship. Trust is very important in an relationship regardless long distance or not. It's hard to express emotion on a long distance relationship. I know a lot of guys have a hard time expressing there emotion in general. For example, I'm dating a girl at the moment that took me a year to figure out I loved her. Right now we are in a little issue because I said something that wasn't to great for me to say but, she needs time. I'm giving her time, the best thing you can do is give her time. Don't get all clingy and worry about saying things. Just be yourself. If you are being yourself then you won't have to worry because if she loves YOU, then she will love you for YOU. Being away from you partner makes you realise what your missing. It's all good and fine to be clingy, but being to clingy is a problem because girls get bored quick. It's not a fact of why she is doing this, it's a stage that everyone has been there and all girls go threw during there relationshps. They feel a lot of emotion on a regular basis. I had a girlfriend that told me she loved multiple people and it waas hard to decide which one sshe wanted to be with. The besst thing to do is give them time/space and not say a thing. Rmake them realise what there misslng