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    #61

    Nov 20, 2007, 03:56 PM
    Perfectly normal.
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    #62

    Nov 20, 2007, 04:00 PM
    OK, good lol, just needed to make sure
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    #63

    Nov 20, 2007, 04:35 PM
    Why do you think there are so many Love Songs , listen to the words and you'll probably find that a lot are inspired by breakups. Listen to the song in the link below , it is about a Long distance relationship. Hope you enjoy it :)

    YouTube - Plain White T's - Hey There Delilah
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    #64

    Nov 20, 2007, 05:07 PM
    Wow, that pretty much sums up how I feel... that song hurts
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    #65

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by schwartzyms
    wow, that pretty much sums up how i feel......that song hurts
    My point being the things you are writing are perfectly normal , in fact what you should do is write down your feelings each day in a journal , you will be able to see how you are progressing. Believe me when you look back on it after a few weeks/months you really start to realise how much you are progressing.
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    #66

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:18 PM
    Yea, I'm definitely going to do that, I just started the NC and it hurts already but I know it must be done
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    #67

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:26 PM
    Well just remember once you start NC you MUST stick to it , the minute you break it you go back to square one , or Page 1 of your journal.
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    #68

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:34 PM
    Allright, I'm going to do my best!
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    #69

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:35 PM
    Good , keep us posted on your progress!
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    #70

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:36 PM
    Ill be sure to, thanks for the advice
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    #71

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:37 PM
    I got to ask something, during the NC what does it mean if she doesn't send me any messages?
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    Nov 20, 2007, 06:41 PM
    Doesn't mean anything , in fact hopefully for your healing process that's what happens , because even if it might be hard at the start it will make the healing process shorter , just concentrate on YOU and don't worry about what she is thinking or what she is doing. It's out of your control.
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    #73

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:42 PM
    OK, just needed to know, thanks again
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    #74

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:43 PM
    No problem :)
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    #75

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:44 PM
    =-d
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    #76

    Nov 20, 2007, 06:44 PM
    Lo, nothing happened... :)
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    #77

    Nov 20, 2007, 09:14 PM
    Hey there schwartzy. I read your signature and realized how it appropriately coincided with your need to read Jiser's signature.
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    #78

    Nov 20, 2007, 09:22 PM
    Who's Jiser?
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    #79

    Nov 20, 2007, 10:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by schwartzyms
    Whos Jiser?
    Jiser is one of our members , see link below.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/jiser.html
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    #80

    Nov 20, 2007, 10:37 PM
    Yea I know, part of my signature I got from him... after I posted who is jiser I realized who it was haha

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