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ChihuahuaMomma · Aug 5, 2008, 04:45 PM

Does he know that you are leaving?

Romefalls19 · Aug 5, 2008, 04:48 PM

Ok... If possible, check in with us on here too.. I am worried and hoping for the best! I am SO proud of you for doing this! It makes me happy to hear that you have realized you deserve better than this jerk!

ChihuahuaMomma · Aug 5, 2008, 04:54 PM

YES, please check in with us. We are worried about you. We ALL wish you the best of luck.

depressedme20 · Aug 5, 2008, 05:02 PM

Yes he does know I am leaving, He is hurt... I am too, but this is my life and I am important and I DO have a right to be here on gods green earth, I am taking this as a lesson learned and this is so much of a learning experience for me. It's so nice to have people routing for me. Thanks so much for all of your help guys I will check in again tonight and then tomorrow before I leave. I just got to be strong, it's hard not to cry

Bless you all.

ChihuahuaMomma · Aug 5, 2008, 05:07 PM

YOU ARE important!! You are absolutely correct.

Romefalls19 · Aug 5, 2008, 06:57 PM

Women that are strong enough to remove themselves from an abuseful situation get all the respect in the world from me. I can't imagine the strength it takes to walk away from that. My girlfriend did it as well as you have, upmost respect to you and I hope life gives you everything you deserve and nothing less!

Ash123 · Aug 5, 2008, 07:52 PM

I am not sure what you are doing going back there?

While I am glad you had time for a glamorous new photo... this is serious stuff. I know you know that, but some part of you doesn't 100% believe it. You need ZERO tolerance for all things that are harmful.

Be safe. We are there for you... As is your friends and mother.

Take my list with you... and be well.

If you get out without any more violence, please make sure someone takes photos and dates them of your damage. It will be invaluable later should charges or a restraining order be required.

All the best. And please no more tempting fate. Or sleeping with men to make anger or pain go away. Its about personal inside peace you are seeking over all else...

A

depressedme20 · Aug 5, 2008, 09:06 PM

Originally Posted by Ash123

I am not sure what you are doing going back there?

While I am glad you had time for a glamorous new photo...this is serious stuff. i know you know that, but some part of you doesn't 100% believe it. You need ZERO tolerance for all things that are harmful.

Be safe. We are there for you...As is your friends and mother.

Take my list with you...and be well.

If you get out without any more violence, please make sure someone takes photos and dates them of your damage. it will be invaluable later should charges or a restraining order be required.

all the best. and please no more tempting fate. or sleeping with men to make anger or pain go away. its about personal inside peace you are seeking over all else...

A

I do hope I find inner peace. By the way I changed my photo because I couldn't stand to see myself sad. The photo I have now was taken over 2 years ago, before the abuse happened, and to me it makes me feel better. I won't be sleeping with anyone and if I decided to act in any sexual activity it's when I know what I am doing. I am going to concentrate on me and only me until I have healed, I am going to continue counseling for as long as I need it. One day I'll be whole... can't say "again" I don't know if I ever was

Thanks ash123

Theresa.

depressedme20 · Feb 9, 2009, 02:45 AM

Hey guys, well... I am in winnipeg and have been here since I last posted. I am doing a lot better... I have met knew people, and I've been on a ton of dates, I'm modeling for a clothing store and I feel absolutely beautiful again. I'm still in contact with Him but, I will never go back.. unfortunetly he has relocated here, Now.. He is living in a Shelter now he barley has food and I just can't help him. Part of my wants to but, I just can't.. He hasn't changed except he has not hit me.. But I'm not stupid guys I know if I live with him again He most definitely will.. Yes I am involved with him still... for some reason I can't break his hold, and he refuses to go back to BC.. is this my fault he lives here now? Maybe..

I refuse to be hurt.. I will not be hurt

I'm going to get some counceling

talaniman · Feb 9, 2009, 06:01 AM

Is this my fault he lives here now? Maybe..

Yes its your fault, as would he be here if you left him alone?

depressedme20 · Feb 9, 2009, 11:35 AM

Probably not,

neverme · Feb 9, 2009, 11:44 AM

Leave him alone... I'm sorry I just scanned through the other replies and read your post. Get away. Go to a woman's shelter if you need support to do this. Find a way. Stop talking to him. Throw your phone away if that's what you need to do.

Do something, and do it quick or soon your posts will look like they did before... and so will your face, and yourself esteem...

depressedme20 · Feb 9, 2009, 11:45 AM

I don't speak to him anymore, I am staying with my sister... I don't answer his calls.. I'm trying really hard to be smart!

neverme · Feb 9, 2009, 11:50 AM

Then how do you know that he's there? That he has no food?

depressedme20 · Feb 9, 2009, 11:51 AM

Because I was in contact with him, But I am not longer.

Romefalls19 · Feb 9, 2009, 11:52 AM

Good, stay strong this time!

neverme · Feb 9, 2009, 11:52 AM

Well then just continue having NC. That's all you can do, one day at a time.

depressedme20 · Feb 9, 2009, 11:55 AM

I know, I will...