[Alty]

That's because with the way porn is right now, guys think we're all SUPPOSED to be shaved.

It gets frustrating to have that expectation of being like a porn star or little girl.

I'll shave mine occasionally--but at MY choosing, as a surprise for the hubby. Of course--he never comments on it when it's NOT shaved, and he's JUST as eager to play with it with any appendage--fingers, penis, tongue, toys--regardless whether it's shaved or not.

For me the issue is that some men expect this. They don't accept that some women don't want to shave, or wax, or even trim. To them it's a minor thing that shouldn't be a big deal. The fact is, it is. It's a personal preference, like a beard or mustache is for a guy.

I do trim, but hubby doesn't care either way. I could have dreadlocks down there and it would be fine with him. What I do with my body is my choice. He loves me for who I am, not for what I look like or how I maintain the hair on my body.

[smoothy]

How about hairy armpits.. Braided with beads? :eek: Just joking.

In my case the wife really won't let me grow a beard or mustache... ( I had them LONG before I met her) I told her fine... but I didn't marry a flower child or a Rastafarian so a bit of trading is in order. (luckily she didn't and still doesn't have naturally hairy arms or legs)

[Synnen]

Alty, you said it better than I did.

I just hate the expectation that I'm supposed to look a certain way down there.

[Alty]

How about hairy armpits.....?

In my case the wife really won't let me grow a beard or mustache.....( I had them LONG before I met her) I told her fine....but I didn't marry a flower child or a Rastafarian so a bit of trading is in order. (luckily she didn't and still doesn't have hairy arms or legs)

Hairy armpits aren't for me. I may be German, but I shave my legs and my pits. But, again, that's my choice. I know many women that choose to go natural everywhere. It's not my personal preference, but if it's theirs, that's their right. :)

I just don't think that shaving, or not shaving, should be that important in a relationship. If that's the biggest issue a couple has, I'd say they're pretty darn lucky.

[Curlyben]