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    Oct 10, 2010, 06:35 AM

    So why the need for the "hugging and kissing" which of course often leads to more. Is it need to feel wanted or needed ?

    But personally if you can do this with the "homeboy" then you don't really care for the boyfriend, and if you are keeping a boyfriend and "homeboy" knows about it,he is not much of a friend either.

    Opinion, dump them both, find respect and care for yourself and how to be happy without someone else. Then find one person that will treat you correctly
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    Oct 10, 2010, 06:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MIZZ.CASTANEDA View Post
    i guess ima be single and later on when i feel like im ready for a true boy ill start dating again.The problem is that they both arent ganna talk to me anymore because ima say that i wanna be alone with no boyfriend or a friend with benifits so thats what im scared off.
    It is their choice whether they want to talk to you, but at least you will be free to meet someone who has most of the qualities you liked in both guys. That is what dating different people is for... to find out what you like and don't like.

    Some people you might stay in contact with once in awhile, and find they can remain friends with you even though the dating bit didn't work out. Most you won't stay in contact with as they will move on and so will you. You will find that is the way life goes with all of your relationships.
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    Oct 10, 2010, 08:12 AM
    You are all right I should stay singel and then find somebody else later on.I should move on and let them move on is for the best its better so I won't hurt both of them.Thanks for everything you really help me a lot know my next ste is to tell them I don't want to be with them and if they want we could be friends.
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    Oct 16, 2010, 08:01 AM
    Im so scared can someone help me??
    Well yesterday I was with my boyfriend and we were about to have sex but then I skweezz or hold his penus hard he said and he started blidding...
    Is this normal of him or what I don't want to get an infection...
    Someone please help me I'm scared... : o
    He is 17 and I am 16
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    Oct 16, 2010, 08:49 AM

    I guess you have decided not to be single, or stay out of a "friends with benefits thing", so now you youngsters are playing with adult things without knowledge to go with it, so you don't know what your doing, and making some very painful mistakes. I highly suggest you read up and gain some knowledge, real facts, before you do something that will bite you in the butt later. Not just an infection, but disease, and PREGNANCY, that can happen with/or without BIRTH CONTROL!!

    Most responsible adults here refrain from advice telling a youngster how best to have sex, so that and your disregard for following the rules and use of chat/text talk, and not even bothering to spell check,

    After repeated warnings, your thread has been closed and any future breaking of the rules will get you deleted

    This also applies to multiple threads which are about the same guy.
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