How to get my straight friend to notice me

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Feb 12, 2010, 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by Patrick Brown

it dont make sence....
look at it this way, I would have been an alot smarter if I walked away at the start. To think that something that you wanted so bad could turno round and hurt you so much aint worth thinking about, because I have him but at the same tim I dnt have him

He could admit that he is gay or bi and it still wouldn't change the fact that he needs to take time to heal from his break up. It sounds like he jumped from one relationship into another. That makes you a rebound.

Sometimes we should wait longer for what we want. If we get it too soon, it usually doesn't turn out the way we want it to.

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