LDR needs space

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Dec 7, 2009, 11:16 AM

Originally Posted by bdogthahog

The only reason I'm so dumb about this one is I have been single for 3 years and dated a lot, so finally found someone I thought I connected with and it didn't work out

It happens, don't need to beat yourself up over it. The problem with not having much experience is that you don't always know the signs of what makes a relationship work and what doesn't. At least you've learned a lot this time and I'm sure you will do better in the future.

Originally Posted by bdogthahog

She said that she just doesn't want to talk right now because she doesn't know what she wants and does not want to give me false hopes if she she decides she can't do this.

Now you don't have to put your life on hold anymore.

I wouldn't jump into another relationship so quickly, since the new person would just be a rebound. Just keep getting to know more people.

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