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    #41

    Jan 20, 2009, 09:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by hungtoronto View Post
    Hey SBohs,


    We live and learn as long as you learn something out of this experience you'll do better next time. At one point I thought I was invincible, I could never fall in love with my ex but when she left it hurt like an SOB. Love, it grows on you so be sure you're with the right one otherwise you'll get hurt.
    Yes, we are not together now,and its weird-as much as I knew it would never work out I got used to it. She wanted to marry me-thought I was her soul mate. I feel bad for leading her on, but didn't really think about it at the time. Now, I miss all the little things-I feel like I am in a cheesy love song. How did you move on?
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    #42

    Jan 20, 2009, 10:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by SBohds View Post
    Yes, we are not together now,and its weird-as much as I knew it would never work out I got used to it. She wanted to marry me-thought I was her soul mate. I feel bad for leading her on, but didn't really think about it at the time. Now, I miss all the little things-I feel like I am in a cheesy love song. How did you move on?

    Love, it grows on you and it's something beyond your control. It's like a drug. No body is invincible. The only way it would work is that she allows you to guide her. Unfortunately common sense is not common to everyone. Trying to get her to understand your point of view at this age is very difficult. Eventually you'll put problems on the back burner. If you have a pile of $hit and try to cover it up one day you'll smell it.

    I moved on by leaving her alone. Go no contact. Haven't talk to her in six months. I believe I do love her otherwise why did it hurt so much when she left.

    Find someone who is mature and can communicate on the same level with you if you want to be with her for the long haul. It takes two to tango and if one doesn't do his/her part thing will fall apart and u'll get hurt.
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    #43

    Jan 20, 2009, 10:16 PM

    I guess this poster used two names?

    Aaaron Sinclair and SBohds?
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    Jan 20, 2009, 10:48 PM
    I guess so but he shouldn't do this because this confusing things.

    In your other threads, with the other name, your obsessed with this girl and can't respect her space.

    So now I am confuse and question your age.http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...me-304316.html

    Also, both threads was posted a day apart from each other.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 07:13 AM
    I am sorry for the confusion-I didn't mean to be misleading. The question about the age was a question I had wanted to ask a few moths ago. I agree that I am obsessed and it scares me. You must be wondering how can someone in such a doomed relationship even care even more. I am in early recovery once again and I am quite out there. I am leaving her alone-I am not a stalker. Some friends say that her being uncomfortable is her problem and if I were to stop going to a place that I have been going to for a few years I would be weak and giving her power. My conscience says to leave her alone. The truth is that I am unemployed right now and that is the only place I can go, and hang out with friends. Yeah, it is kind of pathetic. She only works there a couple times a week-and I don't know when that is. I feel very alone and nuts most of the time. I am older in physical years, but emotionally I am in high school or something. Please accept my apology-i did come on this site for others opinions who have through this kind of . In the future, I will be more forthcoming. Thanks
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    #46

    Jan 21, 2009, 07:20 AM
    SBohds, how are you related to the OP in this question. It is misleading as aaron sinclair originally posted the question and now it seems as though you are answering using another username.
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    #47

    Jan 21, 2009, 07:23 AM

    Age isn't an major issue here, I think she wasn't really that mature and has betrayed your trust she needs to grow up, I think if she was a little more mature and trustworthy you's would've had a chance
    Sorry to hear it didn't work out
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    Jan 21, 2009, 08:01 AM

    Maybe you should get help for your addiction, getting over her, and putting your life back in order.

    Don't listen to your friends your giving her the power by not going to this coffee shop. You've do what is right for you. So it would be in your best interested not to go there.

    With counselling and time your be able to get over her and get your life in order.
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