[George_1950]

How about an update? This was inspiring to read, a wife who cares enough about her relationship to keep it. Dare we say that this is love? Some of the broken-hearted young men need to read this and see what a woman in love is willing to do. Totally inspiring.

[chelle64014]

Hi there Thank you George! Things are going much better,we are finally learning to talk about things and be there for one another when the other one is having a bad day instead of just walking off and not saying anything,we are trying to start making time for one another I finally have a couple people that will watch the kids.. and I think finally that my husband and the 2 older kids realize how over whelmed I was with doing things on my own(house cleaning,cooking,and watching our 3 yr old)so we sat down and had a family meeting to express our feelings and to understand what we need to change and well since then they are helping me out around the house.. I know there is still a long road ahead but I am willing to go any lengths to keep this marriage together,I know for a man it is harder to express himself,but my husband is finally coming around and I know that my thing was is that I was patient enough and I didn't realize that all the fault finding and arguing almost ruined my marriage until that night and in all honesty I hope I don't have to go through that again,you know I thought I new what true love meant,but I didn't until I almost lost it.but anyway I am finally getting out more and finding time for myslef and I am meeting more friends (which is a plus considering I didn't have any here lol)I am also looking to get me a job,it is time I stepped up to the plate a relize my husband can't do it all either,and I don't need to depend on him for everything,but all in all things are going good and I pray it gets better in time.. we just have to keep up what we are doing and learn from it... I am so glad that I posted my question on here becaouse without help from you guys I think I would have done everything wrong and you all guided me in the right direction and with that I want to tell you that I am forever grateful.I hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!! And like I said before anymore suggestions I would love to hear them.. Michelle

[George_1950]

Bottle and market this, and become very wealthy indeed. Awesome, Michelle. Proud of your old man, too.

[killanick191]

You guys should listen to what each other have to say and think before you reply instead of replying in a way that will cause you two to fight
And for the sex try wear sexy stuf that he likes "From a guy's point of view".

[Homegirl 50]

I am so happy for you! Hang in there.