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Emerald19 · May 21, 2007, 09:48 PM

Man don't even call or text him. Eventually he will call and say some bull like why you don't call no more or text me that's when you let him know its because you're the only one who is making an effort in the relationship. Then let him know if he wonna kick it then holla you, and don't call him no more that will show you if he really into you. Because if he doesn't call or anything after that then it wasn't nothing at all you were just someone he ed with when he was bored. You may be a little hurt but at least you didn't invest 3 years to the guy, and it will be easier for you to move on. Also try not to fall for someone so fast people are grimmy. Just take everything day by day. Trust you'll find someone

manga · May 21, 2007, 11:07 PM

I Agree With Talaniman Only Because I've Been In Yourb/f Shoes. Just Don't Let Him Take Advantage Of You Always Wanting To Give Him Attention. Being Depressed Is Rough But It Gets To The Point Where He Needs To Be Responsible In Taking Part In The Relationship Also. If He Sees Or Knows You'll Call Him Without His Efforts He's Depending On You, Which Is Ok But Not To The Point Where He's Leaving You Dry Without Any Reciprocation

Paola_17 · May 22, 2007, 04:50 AM

thank u guys....:o ..now my thing is that he went to this party on friday and i asked him if he was goin and he said NO...some of my friends was gonna be there so of course i was gonna get some feed backs. When i asked him again the next day, he said he did go and he only danced with his friend and some1 else.

Accordin to ppl it he danced with his EX too and that it wasnt even dancin...it was almost EXPLICIT. now i dont mind that he was dancin bcuz thats wat u do in a party but LIKE THAT!....then some other ppl is comin at me tellin me he talks to girls from the other skool that is the same buildin as ours. and iunno wat kind of talk because i really dont mind him havin "girl" friends either. and after i told him about the party he said that he was just dancin and he gave me this lame excuse "IT DOESNT MATTER CUZ WHO AM I COMIN BACK TO?"

well first i dont care who u comin back to as long as u come back clean without doin some BS along the way. and i really thought about this and my heart wants to be with him but then again he needs to make up his mind because im not a TOY.:( :( :(

Stunning07 · May 22, 2007, 12:21 PM

Back off now that's all he's messin with you put your foot down its time for you to do what he's doing that's all you got to do

talaniman · May 22, 2007, 12:51 PM

If this relationship has no honest communication, and doesn't make you happy, what's the point. That's not caring and sharing and it sure ain't love so what is it??

Paola_17 · May 22, 2007, 04:48 PM

we're in high school...i'm a junior and he's a senior....
he does make me happy and today i called to try to talk to him about the situation
and he said he didnt want to talk to me bcuz he feels like i dont need him...I DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHIN!!!and isnt callin and try to fix somethin that i didnt even do a sign of NEEDIN.
im so confused and i dont even know what to do anymore.

talaniman · May 22, 2007, 06:09 PM

Don't beg for the attentions of an immature boy. Leave him alone and let him sulk.

Paola_17 · May 22, 2007, 07:02 PM

that's what my friends told me...he's 18 and im 16 and from everyone elses point of view im actin more mature then he is right now....so I tried and tried and its up to him to make the next move bcuz i didnt do anythin wrong and all i did was care when everyone else told me not to.....

P.S: if he cared he would of tried to explain himself right?

klinus1997 · May 22, 2007, 07:52 PM

I think you should get that book 'Hes just not into you'... Guys make up lame excuses thinking if they tell the truth they will hurt your feelings when - like you said - it makes you feel worse.

Think of it this way... Visualize sitting in a boat with 15 different fishing poles. You reeled in this fish. Kept it for an hour - now throw it back and real in another one.

Too young to waste your time. Move on - find a new one.

Paola_17 · May 22, 2007, 08:24 PM

thanks i'll try

Paola_17 · May 23, 2007, 06:15 PM

anymore advice...i really need it right now...i dont even know wat WE are anymore

bushg · May 23, 2007, 06:47 PM

Oh, sweeetie my heart goes out to you , he is to old for you and seems to be playing games with you... move on quickly. Some nice boy will come along that will feel the same way you do. A relationship just starting should not be filled with so many problems and he did lie to you. Good luck

Paola_17 · May 23, 2007, 07:06 PM

thanks =[

Paola_17 · Nov 16, 2008, 02:45 AM

ohhh mannnn... bad times lol =)...
Thanks to everyone who gave me advice

humbleman · Mar 11, 2009, 06:10 PM

I agree with talaniman.