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Oliver2011 · May 21, 2013, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

Wow dude! Are you really this desperate? You met her a month ago, oNLINE, not in person. You creeped her out, plain and simple. Don't be a creeper, women don't like that.

Well stated.

odinn7 · May 21, 2013, 02:32 PM

Maybe I was incorrect in my earlier comment about HER being the squirrely one.

Alty · May 21, 2013, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by j13ay

It was an honest mistake we were getting closer throughout the last few weeks she was even saying what 3 weeks ago she text me on a sunday morning saying she was thinking of me and I said really she said yes ! What I want to know is when she went on holiday last month she told me in advance ? And then she only told me she was a going away for a week with only a few hours notice it made me suspicous and I started to worry thinking she is seeing someone else behind my back with out been honest

You told her you'd take it slow, then you constantly text her, even when she asks you not to. You continue, and you creep her out.

Now you're saying you were suspicious when a girl that's told you point blank that she's not your girlfriend, just wants to be friends, is seeing someone behind your back? She's not being honest? Honest about what? How more honest can she be with you? She told you from the beginning that she didn't want a relationship, but that's not what you heard. She told you many times that she was too busy to text constantly, but you did anyway, she told you she wants to be mates, not girlfriend and boyfriend, but you're already suspicious of her, worrying that she's seeing someone behind your back? How is that behind your back? She's not with you! She doesn't have to tell you anything, she can go where she wants, and date who she wants, you're not a couple!

Ya, leave her alone, and get a grip on reality.

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2013, 10:46 PM

You are trying to push yourself on her and she does not like you. Leave her alone.

Oliver2011 · May 22, 2013, 04:47 AM

Originally Posted by Alty

You told her you'd take it slow, then you constantly text her, even when she asks you not to. You continue, and you creep her out.

Now you're saying you were suspicious when a girl that's told you point blank that she's not your girlfriend, just wants to be friends, is seeing someone behind your back? She's not being honest? Honest about what? How more honest can she be with you? She told you from the beginning that she didn't want a relationship, but that's not what you heard. She told you many times that she was too busy to text constantly, but you did anyway, she told you she wants to be mates, not girlfriend and boyfriend, but you're already suspicious of her, worrying that she's seeing someone behind your back? How is that behind your back? She's not with you! She doesn't have to tell you anything, she can go where she wants, and date who she wants, you're not a couple!

Ya, leave her alone, and get a grip on reality.

I'm guessing this isn't his first adventure in creeping someone out.

Fr_Chuck · May 22, 2013, 05:51 AM

No, you get to know someone talking to them on phone, sounds like you turned into a stalker in a month. Most women will give same response