I've met this woman online about a month ago we got on really well and she suggested being friends first to which I agreed as last year I had a bad relationship! After a few weeks chatting online I suggested we swapped numbers to which she agreed. She called me a day or a few days later which was great! She told me she was going on holiday with her older sister and we would chat when she got back so we did and texted saying she said she could not do this anymore which was odd. So I asked her what was wrong and she said it was nervous so I suggested we should meet and go go-karting. She then said she would love that as mates and so my next week off work was June so we confirmed it all which was great.
I said I will go slow and we agreed before she went away that we would start as mates then go from there! Anyway we have been texting day in day out which was great she is training to be a lawyer and has got exams next month and in July. So I text her good morning and good night she did not mind that and someday she would text me “I'm busy with family”. Anyway last Friday she text me to say she was going to visit her family in another part of UK and would not be able to reply so she text me to say have a “take care chat in a week”. So I text her last Saturday to see if she was back she said "Hi not yet " so I asked her how her week was and what did she do? I got no reply until I texted good night to her she text me saying " sorry for not replying I'm busy with family and cannot text you all the time take care chat soon " I only heard from her tonight saying " how r u? Hope u r well. I’m doing exams in June so u can’t meet up. Speak to u soon. Sorry to mess up ur plans ". Considering two weeks ago those dates I gave her were okay and now suddenly changed and I booked that time off as I'm visiting a neighboring city so I said I don't want us to lose the progress we have made and let's just meet up for a few hours. She said she would see what we can do.
I said it felt strange not texting you last week. She said yes my studies and family are important to me so she then told me don't text again I can't do this she said just e-mail me details. I said I will but how about limiting texts to twice a day as I have done since she is back! She said I sent too many texts all the time considering I did not text her last week. She then blew up saying “I did not get it. A date is where you get to know each other and take it slow and she wanted to be my friend only, but I text her as if she was my girlfriend, and that I was putting her off ". She said please don't text after this take care and good luck with dating you deserve a good woman ". How can I salvage this as I want to meet her and start fresh? Any ideas, or what do I do?
