[Alty]

Ask him. Tell him that it's just a friend thing. Who knows, it may end up being as more than friends down the road.

Just ask, and have fun.

[16willdn]

Ask him. Tell him that it's just a friend thing. Who knows, it may end up being as more than friends down the road.

Just ask, and have fun.

Okay I will ask him and well since he drives a car should I ask him to pick me up or should I say my dad will drop me off

[Alty]

okay i will ask him and well since he drives a car should i ask him to pick me up or should i say my dad will drop me off

That's really up to your parents. Are you even allowed to date? You should talk to mom and dad before you ask him. If they agree, then ask if they are okay with him driving, or if they want to drop you off. It's all up to mom and dad, since you're not old enough to choose.

[Homegirl 50]

You can ask him. Make sure he knows it's just a date to the dance as friends. Check with your parents. Make sure it is OK with them.

[16willdn]

That's really up to your parents. Are you even allowed to date? You should talk to mom and dad before you ask him. If they agree, then ask if they are okay with him driving, or if they want to drop you off. It's all up to mom and dad, since you're not old enough to choose.

But it isn't a date it is just going as friends and if I ask my parents they will say no because they don't let me do anything but they do know who this guy is and they know the parents so maybe they will say yes but I am scared to ask them and see what they say

[16willdn]

You can ask him. Make sure he knows it's just a date to the dance as friends. Check with your parents. Make sure it is OK with them.

Okay I will but the thing is my parents think that it is wrong for a girl to ask a guy they think that the guy should ask the girl

[Homegirl 50]

You either ask them and see what they say or just go by yourself. If they know the guy and you are just going as friends, they may have no problem.

[16willdn]

Okay I will ask them and if they say no should I still go to homecoming or just forget about it

[dontknownuthin]

Don't do anything behind your parent's back because it will backfire. They will assume the guy is a bad influence on you if you start sneaking around. So ask if they are OK with him picking you up, and if they aren't, ask if they will provide you a ride.

As a parent of a high school senior, I can tell you that when my son starts acting sketchy about things, I turn the screws and tighten up the rules and boundaries. When he's acting honestly and following family rules, I give him a lot more freedom because I trust that he's being upfront with me.

If you end up wanting to date this guy, it will be really hard to ever be allowed to if you start by irritating your parents in how you go about it.

[16willdn]

Don't do anything behind your parent's back because it will backfire. They will assume the guy is a bad influence on you if you start sneaking around. So ask if they are ok with him picking you up, and if they aren't, ask if they will provide you a ride.

As a parent of a high school senior, I can tell you that when my son starts acting sketchy about things, I turn the screws and tighten up the rules and boundaries. When he's acting honestly and following family rules, I give him a lot more freedom because I trust that he's being upfront with me.

If you end up wanting to date this guy, it will be really hard to ever be allowed to if you start out by irritating your parents in how you go about it.

Okay thanks I will definitely make sure to ask my parents

[16willdn]

If I go to homecoming the theme is superhero what kind of superhero women are there?

[Homegirl 50]

Wonder woman, Batgirl, Isis, Storm, Black widow.. Google it. You can find a lot.

[16willdn]

Okay where do I find a costume for one of these superhero women that isn't to expensive because I only have $34 to spend

[Homegirl 50]

Look at pictures of the costumes and put together something from what you have. Or buy a few pieces. Use your imagination.

[16willdn]

Okay I guess I can do that thank you
Can I ask you another question okay why is high school so boring what can I do to make my high school years more enjoyable because I feel like I am just going through the motions and it isn't fun and people say high school is the best years of your life enjoy them but I don't know how to enjoy them when it is boring so how do I enjoy them

[Homegirl 50]

Join some clubs. You're in your first year. The freshman year is always kind of rough. It gets better.

[16willdn]

I hope so because right now it is pretty rough

[Homegirl 50]

Like I said get active, join some clubs. It does get better

[16willdn]

Okay

[16willdn]

Well last night was homecoming and it was really boring why am I now wishing I never had went