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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    #21

    Aug 29, 2012, 02:55 PM
    If you can't see being with a guy with a small penis that is your choice and right. Sex is important. If it was something I could not work with, I wouldn't either. Everyone or I should say a lot of people have their quirks. I for one could not be with a guy who is not circumcised. It grosses me out. My choice. If I miss out on something great because of it; my loss.
    It's your choice and your business.
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    #22

    Aug 29, 2012, 03:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    If you can't see being with a guy with a small penis that is your choice and right. Sex is important. If it was something I could not work with, I wouldn't either. Everyone or I should say a lot of people have their quirks. I for one could not be with a guy who is not circumcised. It grosses me out. My choice. If I miss out on something great because of it; my loss.
    It's your choice and your business.
    Thanks! I'm glad I'm not the only one. Effectively I see your partner as someone that is your best friend and closest companion however the difference is that you are intimate with that person. Otherwise, what differentiates a best friend and a boyfriend? Totally agree with you on the circumcised thing although that personally is not a deal breaker for me. I prefer circumcised ones though. They're def cleaner and more attractive.
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    #23

    Aug 29, 2012, 03:30 PM
    But I will add, because you are jumping from one guy to the next so quickly, (and I'm not saying you're having sex with them) You may not know what you want. You say you have always been attracted to the Jerks. Could be you are meeting nice guys and they scare you, so you're looking for reasons not to stay.
    Just meet a guy and get to know him. It does not have to be for a relationship but a friendship. Get to know what nice guys are all about so you won't feel threatened by them.
    But be honest with them. Just say I'm not looking for a relationship and just date around. Don't even let sex enter the picture. Who knows during that time you may inadvertently meet the right man.
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    Aug 29, 2012, 03:58 PM
    Everyone on AMHD comes from a different place. That's what keeps it interesting.

    If I had decided that intercourse was #1 in my priorities I would have passed (truly) on the love of my life, a man who literally rode in on a big white horse and changed every aspect of my life. I have met other men, I have remarried - but those years were golden in many ways.

    Very frankly, I don't chase cars and bark at the tires. Big deal and who cares. Could I have found someone with 10" who could make me scream with pleasure? Certainly, and I knew those guys. I called them (and I didn't invent the term) c*cksmen. Did I settle for less? No. I also know that if I hadn't been exactly what he wanted, if I (for example) had had a masectomy, if some of my "parts" weren't what he was looking for, he would have loved me anyway.

    Life is what happens to you while you are making other plans.

    I don't understand ruling out perfectly "good" guys because they aren't packing live equipment (to be very crude). I just don't.

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