[Alty]

You can either stay, learn to accept his behavior, and stop complaining about it because you're accepting it, or you leave.

Those are your options.

[JudyKayTee]

...I don’t know what do I do? We are in 21st Century but still girls are treated lik **** by their own husband/partner.? Aren’t they suppose to be equal because we are working, educated and responsible as men are? Then why do they behave like a jack***.

Shall I give up or keep compromising without any expectations in this relation because I am not going to get what I want, even if it’s a small desire I am not suppose to let it out.?

I think intelligent, motivated women (not girls) in the 21st Century do not allow themselves to be forced into loveless, arranged marriages. How are you going to be equal when you have no say about your own life?

The two sexes most definitely are not girls and men.

Questions like yours amaze me and are difficult for me to understand. You entered into an arranged marriage with a man you did not love and had no voice in the arrangement. Now you are thinking of divorce and that is a decision you are "allowed" to make. I'm confused.

At any rate - decide what you want and how to get to that point. Maybe the answer is to leave. Maybe the answer is to stay.

[jackeve]

Dear Aamour106, your husband is listening to his relatives that why the sudden change. Since he doesn't want to talk to you then bring in a third party and probably a counselor. Your friend will take sides get some one who is a mediator cause he just walks away when you talk to him.