[this8384]

On second thought, never mind. You're full of crap:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...me-557215.html

You've gone from "agreeing to keep the baby yourself" to "I never told him" to "I never knew who the father was."

You want to know if you can lie in court - you do realize you're under oath while in court, correct? Although I'm sure that means nothing to someone like you. Lying and hiding is easier than being a stand-up, honest citizen.

[smoothy]

Oh... they are going to make him take a DNA test... and if he's smart.. he will take it in case its really not his.

The state understandibly doesn't want to waste state taxpayers money raising kids the parents or even one parent is capable of paying for.

What you can or can't do in the court you are going to need a lawyer in your state to determine.

There is a sticky at the top of this forum pertaining to parental rights you might want to read.

[this8384]

It would be nice if they could keep their story straight, too. On their first two threads, they were asking as the mother. On the third thread(this one), they're asking as the father. Now on the fourth thread, they're asking as the mother again.

[munchkin27]

I will deal with telling him once he is old enough, I just want to get this over with!

[this8384]

So you lied to the child's father, you're lying to your child, you're lying to us here. And you want us to help you?

Really?!?

[munchkin27]

You guys really don't understand what I'm going throgh here! Im happy with my life and so is this guy I want nothing to change

[this8384]

you guys really dont understand what im going throgh here!! Im happy with my life and so is this guy i want nothing to change

Right - you're happy. Screw the kid and what's best for him!

And I understand you just fine. You're a liar and a deceiver. You want to continue to lie to and deceive your child. That's your issue, not mine.

You applied for welfare, now they're going after the alleged father for child support. You're not getting out of this one.

[hkstroud]

One way to get over this is for you and or your husband to go out and get a job and support your child. You want to get over this but you want someone else (the taxpayer) to support you.

See, we do understand.

[smoothy]

On second thought, never mind. You're full of crap:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...me-557215.html

You've gone from "agreeing to keep the baby yourself" to "I never told him" to "I never knew who the father was."

You want to know if you can lie in court - you do realize you're under oath while in court, correct? Although I'm sure that means nothing to someone like you. Lying and hiding is easier than being a stand-up, honest citizen.

Oooooooo as I read that other post it totally flys in the opposite direction that this post would appear to indicate.

[JudyKayTee]

Lie once and you lose ALL credibility on this Board. There are enough honest people out there, asking questions. To spend the time on people pulling scams.

Guess maybe Welfare/taxpayers won't support you and your child and you'll have to get a job. Gee, just like the rest of us.

You attempted to scam AMHD and you are attempting to scam Welfare and anyone else you come upon.

Time to close this thread.

[JudyKayTee]

OP is incapable of telling the "whole" story or, for that matter, the straight story.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...-557518-2.html

Maybe combining ALL her threads would be a good idea.

[this8384]

Maybe combining ALL her threads would be a good idea.

Or banning her/him. Although this IS somewhat entertaining...

[JudyKayTee]

No two postings are the same - there are at least two other versions of the story. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...on-557518.html

[this8384]

Thanks califdad, but you're wasting your time. We have a big-time troll on our hands. Her story keeps changing; she says here that they agreed she would raise the child - on her new thread, she's saying she never told him and didn't know WHO the father was.

[Synnen]

>threads merged<

You realize that you're not very bright, I hope.

Your son deserves his complete biological and medical history, regardless how YOU feel about it.

And sorry--but if you had to get state aid, the father DOES have to pay child support. Why the hell should taxpayers support your child just because you and the father are no longer together? If you knew you couldn't support a child, then you should have chosen adoption.

The state SHOULD be paid back, and the biological father will likely be forced to do so. And YES, they will do a DNA test.

Lying in court just makes YOU look unfit to parent. What kind of idiot do you think the judge is? And what kind of lesson is that teaching your son? "Gee, kid, it's okay to lie when it will get you whatever you want, regardless what the law says".

Grow up and be a responsible parent--STARTING with being honest in court.

[smoothy]

you guys really dont understand what im going throgh here!! Im happy with my life and so is this guy i want nothing to change

Really... all of us actually have FULL TIME JOBS. And many of us also have families too.

Problem is YOU opened up a can of worms by expecting taxpayers to fund your lifestyle.

You are both welcome to get jobs and do what you wish within reason... but when you leach off the taxpayers... there are rules that have to be followed. And as far as I'm concerned... there aren't nearly enough rules being laid down.

Incidentally... I grew up around a lot of Welfare people... what the Politically correct people call Public assistance. My mother actually worked for head start until she got so disgusted by the entitlment mentality so many of that group had she up and quit.

SO I know that group all too well. Many ARE happy to sit around and collect money rather than have to get up and go to work.

Sorry... I've been busting my butt every day for the last 30 years to pay my bills... AND the damn taxes that go to pay for illegals schooling.. Illegals medical care... and for welfare and Medicaid... for people that never finished high school or get jobs... that I have little left over to put aside for my own retirement.

Sorry... but wefare handouts and illegals entitlements... two things that make my blood boil.

But even more so... are people that think its fine to lie and decieve to get handouts they aren't entitled to otherwise receive.

If he's the dad... make HIM pay rather than the taxpayer... that kid didn't spontainiously develop on its own. It took two to make it. And the taxpayers, all but one of them anyway at most (assuming he works and pays taxes) weren't there.

[JudyKayTee]

Out of greenies but... applause.

[this8384]

Same here, Judy.

Yes, my parents got some benefits while I was growing up. Yes, my family has received some benefits.

But we ALL worked and paid into the system. We weren't sitting at home collecting a check and doing nothing to pay it back.

[JudyKayTee]

Same here, Judy.

Yes, my parents got some benefits while I was growing up. Yes, my family has received some benefits.

But we ALL worked and paid into the system. We weren't sitting at home collecting a check and doing nothing to pay it back.

Out of greenies but I shouldn't stand by the mailbox, waiting for my check to arrive?

Want to hear how I worked three, yes, count them, three, jobs after my divorce in order to hold onto my house?

You know what I really hate? When I go to sleep not knowing who the father of my child is and then I wake up and - bingo! Four years later and I remember! I hate when that happens.

[smoothy]

Out of greenies but I shouldn't stand by the mailbox, waiting for my check to arrive?

Want to hear how I worked three, yes, count them, three, jobs after my divorce in order to hold onto my house?

You know what I really hate? When I go to sleep not knowing who the father of my child is and then I wake up and - bingo! Four years later and I remember! I hate when that happens.

I hate the fact that there actually are women who sleep with so many guys they really don't know who the father is when the inevitable happens.

And yes I knew one like that... ( try 11 in one night alone, and no there wasn't DNA testing at the time). No I wasn't one of them.


Of course they end up on welfare popping one after another out with little thought of how to support them because a trip to the welfare office and its all covered.