[toffee_apple87]

I've never had much romance in my life I've never really known how to be romantic and noonbe has ever been romantic with me, I only know what I see from the movies... I often do what you would call sweet gestures for rmy partner , like putting little messages in his butty box for work buying him a random gift every now and then giving him a treat in the bedroom etc he also does this for me, but id love to do something romantic for him one night as he does for me, andi wouldlike to return the favour but I have no idea what to do. Soif anyone has any suggestions.

[Enigma1999]

How about a nice romantic dinner at home. With music, candles, some wine and dinner.

That always seems to be a success for me.

Another thing that you can do, is having a picnic in the backyard. Throwing a blanket down, with again, some candles, some wine, and a nice desert. This is something that you can do after dinner. That way you can move it outside to lay with each other and look at the stars.

Giving him a massage is always nice too.

[toffee_apple87]

Id love to do the yard thing but haven't got a lawn and its only a small yard lol

[Enigma1999]

Do you have a balcony? Or even a fire place in your home? If so, then you can lay a small blanket down next to the fire place, and continue on with the desert part of the night. Do you guys own a pickup truck? If so, then you could even throw a blanket on there.

Even a bubble bath can work wonders.

[answerme_tender]

Okay, so here is an idea that is romantic and sexy. (and works great)! Make sure wear dress or skirt, with nice heels. Take him out dinner or movie(really doesn't matter which) put in middle of dessert if dinner or close to end of movie lean over and very quietly tell him you have nothing on under the skirt and proceed to finish whatever dessert very slowly!! I think you can handle the rest.

[talaniman]

Things will ALWAYS pop up in any relationship as long as your together. How you handle it as individuals, and as a couple is what will define you, or make, or break you.

[Fr_Chuck]

Those ages are not that bad, but again it is the people, and what type of interest you have. My wife is over 10 years younger, ( maybe more)

I remember black and white TV, see does not,
They did not have computers in the college I went to, she can not believe life without them
I grew up to the Lone Ranger and Sky King on TV, she remembers shows more similar to things my older kids watched.

Now of course we will be looking when he is 70 and you are just 55. Depending on how he ages and his health but he will slow down and not be as active long before you start normally. So 30 or 40 years down the road is when there may be more issues, but if it is based on love, and there is great communication in a relationship it should be fine

[Enigma1999]

Okay, so here is an idea that is romantic and sexy. (and works great)!! Make sure wear dress or skirt, with nice heels. Take him out dinner or movie(really doesnt matter which) put in middle of dessert if dinner or close to end of movie lean over and very quietly tell him you have nothing on under the skirt and proceed to finish whatever dessert very slowly!!! I think you can handle the rest.

Lmao or she could do it your way. Which will be even more successful! Now wy couldn't I think of that? Haha

[talaniman]

Its not romance you need to solve, but the way the two of you relate to each other. After merging your threads then the whole story comes out and there is no need to start new threads about the same guy.

No wonder you're confused and a bit lost as to what you are doing with this fellow.

You both have issues to work out and then the romance will be natural because you both will be healthy enough to care about each others feelings and know what to do about them.