Originally Posted by
Homegirl 50
I find the woman to be selfish.
my gf says that my daughter is my only concern when she is around and that i make extra effort with my daughter and not her ,
That is childish. He sees this woman every day.
Yes he should talk to his girl friend, let her express her feelings. But ultimately she has to decide if she wants to be with a man who puts his young child first.
And I find no fault with a woman who decides she wants a man's undivided attention and does not want to share him with children if she realizes that, says so from the beginning and then moves on before the children are adversely affected.
Maybe it's being selfish or childish, maybe she is just being totally honest. Some people don't want to raise children, their own or someone else's.
I think the girlfriend and OP have to look at the situation and decide where to go from here.
I think we're all on the same page here.