[daybright41]

Let me just say I work in the field of domestic violence and I found myself with a socialpath and yes I had "that gut feeling" and I just kept trying to figure out how to help him. It took me a year of safety planning and figuring out the best way to do it with minimal damage to me and my son (not his) I was with him for 5 years and I was seeking counseling for emotional abuse and my friends came to me and said get out (I had kicked him out of my house 6 months prior to this last incident) he is going to hit you.. When I kicked him out in May he didn't want it to end so he wanted to go to counseling with me to get help for us. I found quickly in counseling that he was trying to get the counselor to see me as crazy and not him.. thank god I was already seeing the counselor so I had a base with him before he started going with me. He punched me because I wanted him to be held accountable and I got punched! I thank god everyday for that punch because yes I had him arrested, a gps teether put on him and currently have a personal protection order. He got two years probation, therapy and has to be tested weekly for drugs and alcohol even those factors weren't used in the attack. If he had never punched me, I don't know if I could have gotten away from him because you need to understand socialpaths do not "release" you until THEY are ready to let you go and they will do everything from conning, manipulating, cheating, lying, abusing before they let you go... So please don't judge us we are not victims we are survivors who survived a social path, because it is not black and white with them when leaving them that is when you are in the most dangerous situation... Please find shelter, get rid of your phone number, change residence.. yes you have to change your whole life to get away from them, because if a socialpath still feels that he needs something from you and you are his "supplier of his needs and wants" he won't stop, you give him no reason too.. MCAT if you need to get ahold of me please do I have a lot of matrial on this topic and I can help you with a safety plan... god bless...

[daybright41]

Let me just say I work in the field of domestic violence and I found myself with a socialpath and yes I had "that gut feeling" and I just kept trying to figure out how to help him. It took me a year of safety planning and figuring out the best way to do it with minimal damage to me and my son (not his) I was with him for 5 years and I was seeking counseling for emotional abuse and my friends came to me and said get out (I had kicked him out of my house 6 months prior to this last incident) he is going to hit you.. When I kicked him out in May he didn't want it to end so he wanted to go to counseling with me to get help for us. I found quickly in counseling that he was trying to get the counselor to see me as crazy and not him.. thank god I was already seeing the counselor so I had a base with him before he started going with me. He punched me because I wanted him to be held accountable and I got punched! I thank god everyday for that punch because yes I had him arrested, a gps teether put on him and currently have a personal protection order. He got two years probation, therapy and has to be tested weekly for drugs and alcohol even those factors weren't used in the attack. If he had never punched me, I don't know if I could have gotten away from him because you need to understand socialpaths do not "release" you until THEY are ready to let you go and they will do everything from conning, manipulating, cheating, lying, abusing before they let you go... So please don't judge us we are not victims we are survivors who survived a social path, because it is not black and white with them when leaving them that is when you are in the most dangerous situation... Please find shelter, get rid of your phone number, change residence.. yes you have to change your whole life to get away from them, because if a socialpath still feels that he needs something from you and you are his "supplier of his needs and wants" he won't stop, you give him no reason too.. MCAT if you need to get ahold of me please do I have a lot of matrial on this topic and I can help you with a safety plan... god bless...