[reesie2010]

I didn't get along with my mother growing up. I felt like she hated me. Turns out, after all these years, she was actually jealous of me. I was a vibrant child. My mother got pregnant and married at 17. I think she lived her life through me at times but not in a good way.

I feel for you. I really do. Please know that it does get better, you ARE worthwhile and you DO matter in this world.

I got to run right now but if you ever just want to chit chat... reach out to me [email protected]. I am probably opening myself up for a world of spam hurt... but I want you to know you are special.

[Im_not_her]

Wow - sounds like your mother has issues.

I understand why you want to climb out of the window and run for your life. Unfortunately at your age that's not an option.

Wonder if there's something you could do to get your mother's approval? I hate to say that because it makes it sound like you have some responsibility in her disapproval but at your age you're sort of trapped there, trying to get along.

Have you ever asked your mother why there are problems between her and you? Don't know that you'll get a reasonable answer but wonder if that would work. - ?

Thank you for your advice:)