[DoulaLC]

Agree with the others... sounds like he just got caught up in the moment with the bum out, music going, dancing around, having a bit to drink, acting silly. They all likely had a bit to drink and got caught up in the moment when he let his bum out.

I can't imagine she would mean anything by it with her husband there, in public, and knowing a camera was on... that is likely part of the reason they did it... for the camera, just not thinking.

I understand your not liking the situation, but I do think it was a one off slip up. Hopefully he will learn something from the experience... especially the part of it upsetting you!

[Eileen G]

If you had been there, and had had a few drinks as well, would you have reacted the same way? You don't see the bum out thing as sexual, and I very much doubt she did either, considering her husband was filming it, and it was in a crowd.

If getting his bum out is his party trick, it would be normal for him to do it and I doubt he even considered it had anything to do with his relationship with you. In the circumstances, it doesn't sound that inappropriate.

If it was, it was HIS decision. Forget her part in this, take it up with him.

I strongly recommend he gets a new party trick!