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    #21

    May 12, 2010, 01:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jmw0713 View Post
    He hasn't done it the last two times he banged those other girls, one of which was in your own bed! How disrespectful and sleazy.
    I'm not defending his behaviour, just saying no, it never happened in MY bed. If he wanted to be with her (the boring chick) I told him to gtfo and go to her house for that . It's not her I consider a problem since we never planned to get back together. As far as we knew, once he left me, it was over. He left me before he did anything with her.

    We haven't been living together since last June.

    It's the other ones I had an issue with.

    We're pretty much just friends with benefits now anyway so at this point really it's not a stretch for me to just cut it :S
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    #22

    May 12, 2010, 02:46 PM

    Well cut that friends with benefits crap!
    That is just tacky. Don't you think you deserve to me more than a booty call?
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    #23

    May 13, 2010, 06:24 AM

    If you don't have enough respect for yourself to stop him from using you for sex, then I don't know if anyone can help you with your problem.

    You are going to keep getting hurt over and over again while you both engage in this type of behavior. The best thing for you to do would be to kick his @ss out of your life, but you seem complacent and accepting of his actions. I hope that one day you wake up and realize that he is a jerk and you are being used, because I know that you are worth more than just being someone's "sure thing".

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