[hheath541]

what is ad nauseam.?

It basically means, going on and on and on.

[alexelboss328]

Like what, give me an example?

[alexelboss328]

What do girls hate about guys?

[Alty]

like what, give me an example?

Like what? It's basically a fancy way of saying etc.

Have you ever been on a date before? Have you ever even talked to a girl? Do you know how to communicate verbally?

Talking isn't hard, just open your mouth and express yourself with words. For example, try "Hi, my name is _____, what's your name? I find you interesting, would you like to go to a movie one night, get to know eachother better? "

Do you understand communication? Are you willing to try it?

[Alty]

what do girls hate about guys?

It depends. You're asking a very vague question. There are too many things that are possible but aren't necessarily traits that every guy on earth has. The same goes for women.

You're also forgetting that what I may hate about guys, another woman may love. It depends on the individual.

[alexelboss328]

Do you think that girls like when on the first date, kiss?

[hheath541]

what do girls hate about guys?

Repeatedly asking questions that either have no real answers, or show that you haven't even bothered to figure out an answer on your own.

[hheath541]

do you think that girls like when on the first date, kiss?

It's IMPOSSIBLE to lump all girls into one category, so stop expecting us to do so. The ONLY thing we know about this girl is that she goes to church, which seems to be the only thing YOU know about her.

Before you even THINK about asking her out on a date, you need to TALK to her. Get to know her a bit. Learn what she likes and doesn't like.



Some things to think about:

Many girls love it when someone gives them flowers. I would prefer not to be given them.

Many girls love getting chocolates. Other girls are allergic and would get seriously sick if they eat them. Some others simply don't like chocolate. Vegans don't eat chocolate because it's made with milk.

Some girls like being taken to fancy restaurants. Others feel awkward and out of place and find it impossible to relax and have fun.

Some girls enjoy a picnic in the park. Others would freak out at the mere idea of eating outside.


Do you, and every other GUY you know, like all of the same things? No? Well, then, what makes you think every GIRL likes the same things as every other girl?

[Alty]

do you think that girls like when on the first date, kiss?

I'm sure some girls do. I don't know if the girl your interested does. You'd have to ask her, not us.

Have you ever been on a date? Have you ever talked to a girl? It's time to try, that's the only way to figure out what she likes and doesn't like.

[Larken85]

For just friends I would just keep the compliments casual. Good job, nice hair, you're funny, fun, awesome. Yada-yada

[Som3Guy]

I will try to help from a guy perspective, a guy who isn't at all an expert at dating. But in my life I've been rejected plenty of times. So what? I just keep trying, I rather go for it and fail so I know that at least I tried.

You are still young, you are going to have plenty of fails too before you find the one. Just keep trying, don't over analyze it, just go for it.

If you would provide more details on this girl, the people here could give you more info on what to do but aparently you don't know nothing about this girl and I think this is the way to go, get to know her first. Be yourself, if she rejects you, that's OK, -1, some billions to go ;).

[I wish]

You compliment someone based on something special about their or their uniqueness. So get to know the person and you will know what to compliment them on.

[adam_89]

Like I Wish said, try complimenting her on what you know about her. Is this a girl you want to compliment and make your girlfriend? Try telling her next time you see her she looks very pretty. Tell her you like the way she dresses, just not in a creepy way or anything. Tell her how much you like being around her and that she makes you smile.

[excon]

Hello a:

You know what? I NEVER had trouble telling friends what I thought was cool about them. The times I started stumbling over my words or didn't know what to say was when I LIKED a girl more than just as a friend.

Now, if that's so, your compliments will take on a different tone - and they should.

excon

[alexelboss328]

LOL... oK, So what should I do/bring on my first date?

[ohsohappy]

Depends, how old are you?

[alexelboss328]

18

[ohsohappy]

18

Then you know what you should do? Talk to her like you always do, but throw in a sweet-yet-casual compliment in her direction such as the ones that the others suggested. Don't try too hard to flatter her, it will show, and too much flattery can get annoying and just sickening. So stick with the simple, and be yourself. :)

[Alty]

Friends..

Is this the church girl you like?

Is this girl really just a friend or are you hoping for more?

Just be yourself, stop over thinking things. If you want to compliment her, do it.

I really don't understand why some people have to think every little thing to death. Why not just be who you are and do what you do?

If a friend of mine is looking hot, I'll tell them. Because that person is my friend, they know who I am, they know my personality and I don't have to censor myself because they're my friend.

Doesn't sound like this girl is a friend if you're worried about what to say and not say.

[Larken85]

While I agree with you alten I have to say that he is looking for a date. It says that in a slightly later post.

If you want to date this girl then be sweet. Not too sweet, cause that can come off as creepy. And don't do a 360 turn with your personality or she'll think you got problems. Don't push all of your attention on her either cause it will annoy her. Mostly be nice and respectful but make sure you notice when she does something or wears something cute. If she knows that you are paying attention in that maner it could really score you points.

Best advice though is something Alten said...

I really don't understand why some people have to think every little thing to death. Why not just be who you are and do what you do?

Showing her that you are self confident is the best way to make her like you. Confidence is your best weapon in the dating game. Be yourself and tell her what you think of her by your own thoughts. Mostly be confident and cool:cool: If you are not comfortable in your own skin it WILL show:eek:

Good luck man, and have fun with it.