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  • Apr 13, 2010, 06:46 PM
    alexelboss328
    Steps of how girls like relationships
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    How can I talk to a church girl that I just met at Facebook?
  • Apr 13, 2010, 07:10 PM
    sohotitsscary

    Find something in common and go from there :)
  • Apr 14, 2010, 03:37 PM
    EXTREEK

    Depends on age then I can help you out. How old are you?
  • Apr 14, 2010, 05:15 PM
    alexelboss328

    Am 18 yrs. She is 20
  • Apr 14, 2010, 05:48 PM
    EXTREEK

    OK so your around my age. You the best thing to do is find common interests. Don't contact her all the time. If she responds with very short sentences like sure, or you then she doesn't have your interest yet. If she is a very attractive person then she may be use to the typical guy hitting on her and may think your just another. You will have to gain her trust. Talk to her as if you want to be friends. Don't GO TOO FAST or you will scare her away. Just talk about random things in your interests and ask her about hers. Be positive but show her that have a sensitive side. Chicks like sensitive guys but still know what their doing. Joke with her but don't make fun of her. You could accidentally hurt her feelings. Just have fun. You have to gain her trust.
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:01 PM
    alexelboss328

    But do you think I should talk to her on Facebook a lot?
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:08 PM
    EXTREEK

    Maybe a little in the beginning but before you get too comfortable with each other you should talk in person. Have any fiends that you can easily talk to on Facebook and when you see each other in public its as if you have never met? You don't want that to happen
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:14 PM
    alexelboss328

    no.. Your right, how I can make a church girl fell in love with me?
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:29 PM
    EXTREEK

    Focus strictly on becoming friends first. This quote means everything: the moment you stop searching for love, love will find you. And its completely true. Love isn't something that can just be done while playing your cards right. Sure it helps a tun but she can only fall in love with you as easy as it is to love a pet. It just happens when she's becomes really comfortable with you you. Just have fun for now. In a while start talking about personal stuff. Give her a reason to be interested in you. But stay humble. Don't brag about yourself
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:33 PM
    alexelboss328

    Do you think that church girls like meeting guys on chats/facebook?
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:52 PM
    EXTREEK

    What kind of church is it and is she very religious? Are you very religious?
  • Apr 14, 2010, 06:57 PM
    alexelboss328

    Well she goes to an pentecostal church. Well a little..
  • Apr 14, 2010, 09:23 PM
    EXTREEK

    She's a little religious or you are? Or both of you
  • Apr 15, 2010, 01:23 PM
    alexelboss328
    Well I don't know... but she is a church girl, I know that for sure..
  • Apr 15, 2010, 01:32 PM
    hheath541

    You can't lump all the girls who go to church into one category. It doesn't work that way.

    Get to know HER! Learn to see beyond the fact that she goes to church. If you focus just on her religion, then you'll never get anywhere.
  • Apr 15, 2010, 03:56 PM
    alexelboss328

    Can you tell me tips of how to date girls? Lol
  • Apr 15, 2010, 04:01 PM
    Alty

    What exactly are you looking for? When you say "date" what do you mean?

    The first step to any date is to talk to the person. Ask her about herself, talk to her, maybe suggest going to a movie, or for dinner.

    I wouldn't recommend getting to know someone via Facebook or any other internet site. Whatever happened to face to face contact, or even contact over the phone?

    Just talk to her, find out if you have common interests and go from there.
  • Apr 15, 2010, 05:45 PM
    alexelboss328

    What do girls like about guys?
  • Apr 15, 2010, 05:49 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alexelboss328 View Post
    what do girls like about guys?

    Seriously? If a girl is straight then what's not to like about guys? They're guys! ;)

    Confidence, morals, intelligence, caring, manners, ad nauseam.

    The most important thing is to be who you are. The rest will fall in to place.
  • Apr 15, 2010, 06:14 PM
    alexelboss328

    What is ad nauseam.

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