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sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 02:10 AM

After two nights's crying in home, I called him tonight and we had talked. He said he never known such big misery he brought to me. He said he loved me but the love was not what I want. He said he dosen't want to lose me but he will let me go and won't contact with me anymorebecause he doesn't want me to be hurted by him anymore. He said I am special to him and he won't forget me forever. After the calling, I deleted his cellphone number,his Email, his MSN, and everything I can contact with him. Then suddenly, I feel relaxing. I know tomorrow morning when I get up, I will still feel pain. But I am happy I began to step out. I won't blam him or hate him because it was what I was choosing, what I was suffering. I need to be happy, be proud, be self-precious... Hope next time I can give good news to all your guys who helped me to go through this, I appreciate it a lot.

amicon · Jan 18, 2010, 02:16 AM

Try to have a good nights sleep.
You're doing the right thing-come back tomorrow.
Take care.
.

sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 02:32 AM

Originally Posted by amicon

Try to have a good nights sleep.
You're doing the right thing-come back tomorrow.
Take care.
.

Thank you!:)

Jake2008 · Jan 18, 2010, 02:40 AM

Sorrow- I am PROUD of you!!

You are doing the right thing in letting him go, and getting yourself back.

In the days to come you will have 'moments' but remember the pain is going to be worth it, because you will have your freedom again.

Wonderful news!

sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by Jake2008

Sorrow- I am PROUD of you!!!!

You are doing the right thing in letting him go, and getting yourself back.

In the days to come you will have 'moments' but remember the pain is going to be worth it, because you will have your freedom again.

Wonderful news!!

Hey,thank you!:) Today's morning when I got up, I felt pretty painful, but then I breathed deeply and went to school. Eveything is getting better. Thanks for you help a lot.

sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by Gemini54

I feel really cynical about this married guy with an open relationship - I feel like he's a predator. He knew exactly what sort of person to choose - vulnerable, lonely and new in town. He knew exactly how to keep reeling you in each time you tried to 'stray' too far.

He wants a bit on the side because his marriage is not enough. The sad thing is, you'll easily be replaced. There are always other vulnerable women waiting in the wings.

At least now you can cut yourself free. Go to counselling and get an understanding about why you allowed yourself to be sucked in by this predatory guy.

And, be thankful that you're not his wife. She's the one I really feel for.

She is not a bad woman. They choose their life style and it works well between them, but not for me. I can't handdle that,just pain. Fortuanately I begin to have courage to leave the life away.:)

amicon · Jan 18, 2010, 01:32 PM

It'll get better and easier as the days pass.
Good luck with your school.

JudyKayTee · Jan 18, 2010, 01:33 PM

And stay strong!

sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

And STAY STRONG!

Thank you!:)

sorrowfulgirl · Jan 18, 2010, 01:35 PM

Originally Posted by amicon

It'll get better and easier as the days pass.
Good luck with your school.

and thank you again!:)

HistorianChick · Jan 18, 2010, 01:36 PM

He is using you for good sex. You are worth SO much more than that.

You deserve a man that is yours; completely yours. Not some man's fun on the side of his marriage.

He is cheating on his wife. You don't need him.

You're right. He is toxic. And, until you get this poison out of your life, you will be miserable.

I am sorry that you have fallen in love with a bad man. Please, for your own happiness, get rid of him!

JudyKayTee · Jan 18, 2010, 02:54 PM

Has anyone discussed the dangers of unprotected sex with a promiscuous man?