[amicon]

You listen to your head,keep enjoying your single life and leave the past in the past.

Keep healing and moving on.

[talaniman]

Well dude you got distracted, and carried away by your feelings before and she dumped you and even now your resolve is wavering as she tries to get back with you. Are you going to let that happen again? She is obviously fooled by what glitters, and is not gold, so continue on your own path and leave hers alone.

Stop the contact that keeps old feelings stirred up within you, and disappear from her life. You have enough facts about the way she treated you before, to not go back to it. You ignored the red flags from high school, and your ignoring the ones now. Don't ignore them any longer. Pay attention to your future, and not hers.

So you know, it's a big red flag that you consider getting back with a partner who dumps you for another, and then she gets dumped by them, and they come back to you.

She needs attention, and a lot of it.

Disappear from her life, and enjoy your own. She is on her own now too. She blew it with bad behavior. That's a glaring fact you should pay attention too.

[livinlife77]

Thanks to all of you... past couple days have been really tough... I'm normally not emotional at all but as said, it's tough to get over a long term relationship, esp the first. Best thing to do is leave her in the past and move on. She wants friendship, deep down I really don't because of what she did but it's hard for me to ignore her, I guess that just comes with time. Thanks again, will update all in a month of two!

[amicon]

If you don't want a friendship right now-thats the choice you make.

What she wants is irrelevant.