[yesnomaybeso]

I know this is wrong of me to do but I still have access to view her profile with another account that I rarely use anymore. Keep in mind that I am laughing right now because I feel like it is driving her nuts. She has now changed her photo to one she sms'd me and has updated her mood to restless. I know this is kindergarten sh*t but I can't help it. I still feel very strongly for this girl and now it feels like I am just playing games. It's a tough thing.

[amicon]

Stop checking up on her. Stop buying into and/or playing games. It'll set you back every time you do that.
So move on from kindergarten and do proper NC.

[yesnomaybeso]

So I was on here recently talking about a girl I had been seeing for 3 months that out of nowhere said she wanted a break. I was shocked and confused and didn't know what to do. For three weeks we didn't talk, but texted randomly. By the end of the third week I decided to give up and remove her from my social networking sites. She texted me asking why I did that and that she's sorry if she did something to upset me. I didn't respond for two days, then responded telling her if she wants to talk she'll have to call me. She called me. We talked and this opened her up to me more. She said breaking up is not what she wanted. We spoke about communication and how we know we want to be with each other and that we need to talk about things that are bothering us if it's going to work, etc. So, this past Friday she decided to come down and visit for a day, rather than the whole weekend. It's a LDR and previously she said she felt it was moving too fast. I removed her from my life assuming we would never talk again but I was wrong. This helped us feel better about each other and trust each other more. We're back on good terms over nothing to begin with and we feel great about each other. Could this turn around again and lead to more heartbreak? Sure, but at least we didn't give up on each other. When you give up, you lose the fight. I think fighting for what you want makes you a stronger person and if it does turn sour again, then I will quit and move on. Just wanted to say that I think no contact/removal of someone can bring them back. Don't quit too soon.

[Fr_Chuck]

You never know where a relationshiop goes.

She says she did not want to break up ? So why did she ? Often a month into a break up, people start missing the "safe" not because they really want it, but

The real idea of no contact is not really to get them back, since you obviously broke no contact is if merely a method of moving on with your life and getting over the other person

[amicon]

We use no contact to help us get over a breakup,it's not a tool to get an ex back.
As for your relationship,I'd say proceed with caution-unless you have sorted out whatever went wrong in the first place,it may well go wrong again.

[Romefalls19]

No contact is a way to get over a break up not a tool to get them back into our lives. It's your decision, but you really didn't use NC per say, because you still responded to her