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cdad · Oct 11, 2009, 07:46 AM

Originally Posted by phlanx

There is nowhere on my posts here did I say convertly record the conversations!

Why havent you offered advice to the lady who thinks she has no hope and offer some encouragement in a difficult time!

Talk about the Land of the Free and the Brave!!!

In this case and not wishing to hyjack this thread. My fellow posters and board regulers have offered excellent advice already and I was keeping track of this thread. When I read your response you may have been suggesting the OP do something illegal. Sometimes its difficult at best if you make a blanket statement to have it stick across the board. That's why I felt it best to get the correction out there. Recording a conversation and only one side knows can be a bad idea if yor state doesn't cover it. That's why most of the time we try to nail down the laws as it applies and also for future readers of the thread for reference.

phlanx · Oct 11, 2009, 07:47 AM

Fair enough on that comment

natk89 · Oct 11, 2009, 08:37 AM

yes he pays the child support but even if he doesn't they'll take it out of his checking acount.

and I want him to visit her. She needs her dad in her life. But he wanted to come at like 8 at night and wanted me to wake her up for him cause hed rather play video games and play with his friends after work. It was to hard on the baby doing it that late. And he would randomly say OK I'm coming over and expect me to drop everything for him so I came up with a scheduale.

also I told him it didn't have to be at my house I would meet him anywhere. His house his friends a park anywhere. He always just came to my house.

stinawords · Oct 11, 2009, 10:08 AM

Okay the facts remain the same. He will get visitation, if you can prove him to be a danger then it will be supervised if not then it won't be. Like I said before all you can do is have everything prepared for court to have the best case you can. But in the end he will get visitation at the time and for the duration that the judge sets.

natk89 · Oct 11, 2009, 10:28 AM

OK that's fine. Will he get overnights?

natk89 · Oct 11, 2009, 10:49 AM

Can a judge force you to use formula on visitations? I'm breastfeeding and can't get any out on the pump.

stevetcg · Oct 11, 2009, 11:06 AM

Can he? Yes. Will he? Probably not. Best to have a note from your doctor though.

stinawords · Oct 11, 2009, 07:24 PM

No, he can't force the formula but you will need a doctors note saying that you are physically unable to pump. After the child is one year old yes he is very likely to get overnight visitation. Even if you are still breast feeding (it isn't the main source of nutrition at that point so will only be seen as you trying to get out of the court order).