[matthardy197]

so here is the deal... im 24 years old...my bf and i have been together for almost 2 years...he is my first real boyfriend and he was also the first person i ever had sex with... it used to be great, really amazing but for a couple of months now we have been barely having sex at all... he wanted to have a threesome and i kinda hooked up with a girl infront ofhim , thiking it will make him be more attracted to me....after that hapeed we only had sex once and its been like a month since that happened....i know im not an ugly girl, even though i might be 10 pounds overweight...people still find me attractive... i just feel disgusting and not attractive at all i any way.. i cry constantly because i get sooo frustrated everytime i try to initiate sex with him and he rejects me..... he says it isnt me .. that he just needs some time and that he loves me....i dont even know what to believe anymore... because i feel like .... i thought if someone loves you ,a way of showing that love is through sex....i dont know.....should i wait ??... should i just break up with him?..... help....

Break up with him! Do you have a myspace?

[Suelle383]

All relationships go through their ups and downs in the sex department. Talk to him about.. but don't nag him. Usually, there's just stuff going on in their head they need to work out themselves. Sometimes if you make yourself unavailable, you'll find he'll start chasing you for it.