[Marfar10]

I do understand - I'm a stepmother. I never, ever tried to replace my stepchildren's mother in anyway. I was their father's wife, their stepmother, not their mother.

I never understand stepmothers who try to replace "mom." Never understand that.

Sorry to hear what you went through as a child and it makes it much easier to understand your concern and feelings -

I wish you well.

Thank you