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talaniman · Jul 6, 2009, 02:45 PM

Yeah it sucks, especially when you saw the potential, and had high expectations. Its supposed to hurt, so you will remember this experience, and think even harder next time.

Still it sucks, and you may be hard pressed, but must find ways to overcome, and deal with your feelings in a positive way.

Please read the stickies at the beginning of this forum, for some good suggestions by others who have gone through the same things as you are now. It will help a lot.

There is a link in my signature, and know you will survive this low point in your life, and be much better for it.

SummersNight · Jul 6, 2009, 03:21 PM

Thanks a bunch half & tal & everyone else.

God this site is a life saver, it actually is so helpful to hear from a bunch of different point of views.

& I feel like I can actually get a load off the weight I carry of emotions... Thanks! I'll keep myself posted on here since it helps sooo much!!

halflife1820 · Jul 6, 2009, 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by SummersNight

Thanks a bunch half & tal & everyone else.

God this site is a life saver, it actually is so helpful to hear from a bunch of different point of views.

& I feel like i can actually get a load off of the weight i carry of emotions...Thanks! I'll keep myself posted on here since it helps sooo much!!!

No problem, just remember to breathe and look in your heart, you have complete control of everything in your life so smile and make the most of it :D

SummersNight · Jul 11, 2009, 01:49 PM

Okay get this, my ex whom I found out that lied behind my back flirted and txted his ex... Well yeah I left him, but I've been wanting to be civil with him and at least talk to him and keep in contact every now and then since he was a really good friend before.

So I called him up last night and we just started talking about everything, kind of like closure I'm assuming, and we just start bs'in like old times... then hung up. The next morning I get a text message from him saying "check your email" so I checked it and I get an email saying here's some "songs I wrote around your birthday a few months back dont laugh and some other songs i wrote a long time ago, im going to remember them as much as i can. You are the 1st to read them"

And as I started to read I noticed how it looked familiar so I googled it in YouTube and guess what Johnny cash starts singing his lyrics that he says NO one has ever seen before! Lol omg I am so embarrassed for him at this point I'm speechless. I don't even want to tell him that I know there not his lyrics.. *sighs* any advice on what the hell this dude is thinking?

Were not even together and when we were talking on the phone I told him at this point DO NOT LIE to me, you have no reason to... he thinks lying will impress me, is he just mental or something?

Alty · Jul 11, 2009, 02:01 PM

He's a liar, it's what he does. Sad thing is, he's not even good at it.

Why do you want to stay friends with him?

SummersNight · Jul 11, 2009, 02:08 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

He's a liar, it's what he does. Sad thing is, he's not even good at it.

Why do you want to stay friends with him?

I wanted to stay friends with him because I thought now that we were broken up there would be no reason to lie just go back to giving each other advice and just being civil friends, but I guess he has an unbreakable habbit he just can't break. I told him cut and dry NO REASON TO LIE TO ME SO Don't DO IT. & he agreed and the next morning he does this geeze...

Alty · Jul 11, 2009, 02:23 PM

Then he's shown you he's not going to change. You dumped him for a reason. The majority of people can't stay friends with their exes.

My advice, walk away. He's a liar, will always be a liar and good news, you're no longer his girlfriend, so you don't have to put up with it.

With friends like him, you don't need enemies.

justcurious55 · Jul 11, 2009, 02:26 PM

Like alty said. He's a liar, it's what he does. And since you already broke up, I don't see why you should wait around to see if he ever changes. Chances are, he won't anyway. I'd go hang out with your honest friends and forget this one if I were you.

ajGambino · Jul 11, 2009, 02:44 PM

Why are you putting up with this? You left him and now, trying to be friends with this guy. Why's that? Because you love all his BS he throws at you?

This is an easy one, just ignore him. Do not try to be friends.

Catsmine · Jul 11, 2009, 03:49 PM

Not only is he a liar, if RIAA sees it he may be an inmate. Pirating lyrics is just as unlegal as melodies.

talaniman · Jul 11, 2009, 06:12 PM

When you have had enough lying, I suppose you will leave the guy alone.

Until then enjoy his lying, and be miserable and confused.

He is what he is, so what are you going to do about it, is the question to be answered, not why he does what he does.