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    Aug 27, 2009, 07:03 PM
    I will say one month? That's not enough time to get to know each other at all. You can't truly love a person after just one month. Infatuation? Yes... Love? No.

    If the two of you were in a monogomous relationship I see that she broke the rules by posting her picture and you had every right to get upset, but by reading your thread, did you go overboard? However, by reading your post, it seems that this relationship has had more than it's fare share of arguments. You should not be arguing frequently after only one month.
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    Aug 27, 2009, 07:39 PM

    We are both 18 and had 3 arguments total and by going off I mean just verbal. Not like cussing or anything just getting the way I feel out in a way that I guess is kind of harsh and cold.
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    Aug 27, 2009, 08:14 PM

    Ok, I do get it that she shouldn't send pictures to other people online, but she shouldn't want to in the first place, I don't know why you would, unless they were good friends of yours or something or there was something you needed to show them... so that's something to think about... but she also shouldn't have to ask your permissions, you are not her agent or something...

    About the "give me a week or two" thing... that would be quite normal if she was hurt by you leaving her, but incorporate that with the sending of photos online and stuff, she might be waiting a week or 2 to see if any of those guys she sent her pictures to is interested. She might want to see what else is out there or if anyone else is interested in her before she recommits to you.

    I don't know anything for certain, but I guess these are just some things I'd think about and consider if I was in your position.

    I think you need to sit back and chill with this relationship now. Give her the time he asks for, and if she comes back, you both have to talk about this, settle it and be more mature in the future. If she doesn't come back, you'll have to move on, yes it is your first love, but if she is not the one, you will have more love coming your way in time... Peace
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    Aug 27, 2009, 08:29 PM

    I think you need to wrap your arms around the fact that the relationship is over act like its over go on about your life as if its OVER than if anything else comes of it you will be plesantly surprised,she didn't see your side of the picture issue either they were totally innocent and you went overboard or they were flurting and she didn't like you finding out either way you need to stick with a plan
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    Aug 27, 2009, 09:17 PM

    She still plans on calling and texting me so yeah...
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    #26

    Aug 28, 2009, 04:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JeffGrizzwald View Post
    she still plans on calling and texting me so yeah...
    And?
    You are going to wait like a dog for her next words
    Move on start working on rebuilding other relationships etc.
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    Aug 29, 2009, 11:01 AM

    What happened to the 21 year old??
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