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    ConfusedandLost Posts: 93, Reputation: 26
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    May 15, 2009, 04:03 PM
    Yes and no, we all have events that trigger what I call an emotional overload which leads to uncertainty. In each of our cases I'm sure that things were fine and there was something that triggered that. I do know this, when in a relationship where you are not engaged or married... don't try and plan out the very distant future. It will lead to second guessing and wondering if this is right or not. Take it day by day and maybe week by week. Now our significant others do truly love us, that's why they couldn't find a way to tell us what really is on their mind. Their intentions were for the best but they did not see the whole picture and the impact it would make on us. Relationships are such a tricky situation in this day and age. Just remember one thing... always live your life, take chances, learn from them... you only get one shot at life. Never put yourself in a situation where 10 years down the road you say geez I should have done that!
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    May 15, 2009, 04:06 PM

    I'll agree with that

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