[Dasan1]

I'm hoping these 2-3 days away might do something for us... but I doubt it. I sent her a text this morning saying I'll be leaving, but I guess she's still asleep. I'm at the airport right now, thinking and thinking...

[kctiger]

She sounds like a complete pain in the arse. Exactly like my ex... I cannot believe I put up with that crap for as long as I did.

[Romefalls19]

I sure hope that's a one way ticket away from her

[Dasan1]

Hahaha... That would be a good one bud. Unfortunatelly, I'll be back. I only have one question while I'm away... Should I answer her texts and calls, or just fall off the face of the earth?

[kctiger]

Change your number... seriously. Why do you put up with this stuff?

[Dasan1]

I honestly don't know why I put up with it... It's a an answer to a question that I've been looking for for a while now... and I didn't get anywhere.

Changing my number is not an option right now... The reason I was asking that is because maybe this could make her think more... how is it without me in her life... But then at the end... I know what you will say... she's not right for you so why does it even matter. Move on! Right?

[kctiger]

Right.

[Romefalls19]

Well considering she chose to break up with you, life without you as a boyfriend seems pretty good.

No offense but I have to call into question, your man card. Please present it

[Dasan1]

Well She didn't break up with me... "we need to slow things down" was the thing... but yeah you're right... I can't find my man card... I think it was taken by my ex 4 years ago.

[liz28]

Since changing your number isn't an option right now why don't you just ignore her texts, calls, emails, etc.

Just because she might try to reach out to you doesn't mean you have to reach back.

Also, did a total 360 from your original thread which is good because leaving her is your best option.