Need to give this one last shot.
Little background... I've known this girl for 2 years... Last 3-4months we've been dating and then began a relationship. It's been basically up and down a lot. Knowing her as friend is totally different then knowing her now. I've realized that she has issues that I'm not getting at all...
My main concern is the way she's acting towards me. Sometimes she's nice and lovely... basically the girl I fell for... then other times she's mad, for no reason mind you... takes it out on me and then just becomes this pain in the . I think I figured out that the problem is that I was too damn nice to her. I tried to help her with problems whe had (big mistake) I'm always there for her (meaning I became a doormat)... And the worst of all, I can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me nuts. I know that the best thing would be to break up with her and move on... but at this point I really want to give this one more shot, and this is the whole reason I'm writing here for the first time.
Today she got mad as we were going to get lunch. She started ing about some friends of ours and stuff, and I just told her, what's with you, why are you all mad for no reason, just relax. That got her mad and she stopped talking to me. We had a silent lunch then I just drove her home. I tried talking to her in the past about this issue, but we didn't get anywhere because it just became bigger fight.
Tonight, I'm supposed to go out with her and frankly I don't really feel like it if she'll be like this. I really, Badly need advice on what to do tonight... Please don't reply with "dump her and move on" because I care too much about her at this point... However, if I see that there is no change in her at all in a day or two... it will be over.
So please, just give me advice on what can I do here to stop being mr. nice guy and turn this thing around. Ignore her after we go out? Not go out at all? Not talk to her? Not care... what?
Thank you