[scott_1976]

Love is rough

[liz28]

No I don't hate love but I know relationships are a two way street. Both people have to be committed and have to want it to work.

I been through break-ups and I know it sucks but when someone have kids the person your with have to accept them to. It's a package deal. They can be jealous of you going to the mother house to see or pick up your kids and if they do--you don't need them. No one should come between you and your kids.

Once you tell them upfront you got kids and they can't deal with it then it's bye-bye to them.

[redhed35]

I have been in love and had my heart broken,I thought I would never love again,but I did,and would you believe the same bloody thing happened again.
But what I learned was, hearts heal and the wheel of fortune always turns.
You loved your ex once and had children,and I bet you thought there would never be another,then you loved again.
Give yourself time to heal.

[Mazdadude07]

I hear you Liz28, which we had talked about, as she had a kid as well, wasn't the kids, it was her thinking of the possibility of me hooking up with the ex and she would never know, she had some trust issues, in past one of her ex's was dating her and still saw the ex, still hooking up with her for several months of the relationship. I did tell her she shouldn't be punishing me for things her ex's had done, but then again, I to believe, trust shouldn't be a given, but earned.

I did learn something from it though, not to bring kids into relationship until a few months, with it being a first relationship away from their mom, it was all new to me, mistake I won't make likely again, seeing them get attached to the new person and then the person disappearing, was hard for them to understand.

[Mazdadude07]

More threads merged by the overworked moderator


Have you ever been so into someone that they were your world?

From a guys side, Ever been so into someone, it didn't matter if you had sex with them or not?

Ever been so into someone, where what seems likes minutes to you two, is hours to everyone else?

Ever been so into someone, to what seems like have been together for a eternity to you two, is such a short time to everyone else?

Ever been so into someone, where it doesn't matter if get to see them for 5 minutes or 5 hours, it's the time spent and seeing that matters?

Ever been so into someone, where when you kiss, it takes your breath away, and the world around you melts away?

Ever been so into someone, where you didn't even have the thought in your head to check out the opposite sex?

I have, and it's called Love, and how I hate it so!

[kctiger]

I'm sorry, but is there a question in your post or is this just a random vent?

Yes, I have been in love... I assume you hate it because it breaks your heart when it ends?

[jolienoire]

I am into someone like that right now IT feels wonderful!

, and it is myself.
And when I realize how much I love myself, and respect myself and take what life gives to me, and never regret it, or regret loving because my breakups and heartbreaks is what made me who I am today.
Sincerely
No regrets

[Mazdadude07]

Precisely Kctiger,

This is more of a question to members, as I've experienced it, curious to others their input and experiences like Jolienoire has shared

[kctiger]

I have to agree with Joli... what's the point of doing anything half a$$. If you love yourself enough then devote that love to someone else. The opportunities in life aren't endless, and if you don't take advantage of everything chance are you will live with constant regret.

Clear eyes, full hearts.. CAN'T LOSE!!

[anewday]

Yes to all of the OP's questions.
I've done things that at the time were fantastic sacrifices that I *wanted* to do for my ex's. Do I regret any of them? Nope!
I can't really regret anything that made us both extremely happy at one time, even if it hurts like hell now.

[jenniepepsi]

Yes to al l of the questions as well. I am married to my hsuband who does ALL of that for me. Including the hate part of it sometimes.


The point is asking yoruself if you love this person enough to accept and put up with the little things you hate. I always ask myself 'does the good outweigh the bad' and the answer is always yes.

[spitvenom]

Yes to all the questions except the first one. My world is filled with many people and if my wife left me or died my world would not end. But there would be an enormous hole.