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    j4son1988 Posts: 13, Reputation: 3
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    Apr 16, 2009, 08:02 PM

    Damn I was hoping it was some kind of sign, in a good way for me.
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    Apr 16, 2009, 08:11 PM
    Whatever you do, don't meet up with her to talk. If she says there is no chance of getting together, then what's the point? She probably wants to listen to you beg to be with her and all that comes along with it. Just another way for her to get a boost before she puts herself out there with other guys. If I were in your shoes, I'd just tell her that I don't want to see her again and leave it at that. Let her boost your ego for a bit. It sounds like she's not ready to fully leave you behind yet, so she will probably still contact you after this from time to time, until she finds someone else that is. Use this to your advantage and move on.
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    Apr 16, 2009, 08:18 PM

    Yeah its just mind games it drives me nuts, they say things then it gets your mind racing, and brings out all these thoughts, moving on is besst.
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    Apr 16, 2009, 09:04 PM

    So why are you still even putting up with her cruelty? That's the whole problem, your staying in her target zone, instead of ignoring this fool.

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