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    #21

    Aug 20, 2006, 10:27 AM
    Defintely - she loves drama... runs hot and cold... whne she runs cold - PULL BACK - don't give more attention
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    Aug 20, 2006, 11:40 AM
    Grayfox disagrees: Don't completely disagree, but she may have just been trying to see how much you love her.
    If you don't disagree, then why negative rep someone? And if trying to see how much someone loves someone in this manner isn't a game, then what is?
    Added in after reading latest post: LOL so we agree after all -- it is a game. And its good to know you'll be more clear next time -- no hard feelings here.
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    Aug 20, 2006, 11:47 AM
    I did disagree valinor, I don't feel that she wasn't relationship material. However, I do agree that she's wishy washy. I believe it is a game, but nothing too serious or abnormal, happens a lot in relationships. Just a little immaturity, but nothing extreme. A lot of things could have cause that though, things that can or could be worked out. My apologies about the negative rep , I wasn't aware it was that serious, I meant only to disagree. I will be more careful in the future.
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    Aug 20, 2006, 06:54 PM
    I think this girl wanted to break up and this situation just happened to come along and give her the perfect reason to do it. Personally, I would have my wall up if someone dumped me after one fight, and not be to keen on trusting them.
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    Aug 23, 2006, 07:37 AM
    Hey just wanted to give an update. We're pretty much back to normal now. We got a lot of our issues worked out and are getting along like we used to before all this happened last week. I know I was wrong and she knows I'm sorry and I told her what she did was also immature which she admitted to. I also told her I'm not going to be in one of those relationships where we break up and get back together every 5 minuets. We're actually going away together this weekend which I think will be good because we can work on our relationship some more. I'm taking things very slowly and not trying to rush anything. This is defiently something to learn from and I won't make the same mistake again. Just wanted to thank everyone for their advice and opinions, it really helped.
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    Aug 23, 2006, 08:18 AM
    Cool. Make her laugh all weekend... and tease her a little big time.

    Did I say make her laugh??
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