[worriedgirl_09]

Call your aunty today and ask her if she can help you make an appointment with your doctor. You can see your normal doctor and confide in him. Tell him what's going on and that you did not feel comfortable speaking about it in front of your mother. Since you have an aunty you can trust, you don't need Planned Parenthood. Tell her you need some education on your body and sex.

*Hugs*

Now go call your aunty.

Thank you so much for the edvice I really needed it... and yes I will but if I go back to my doctor and tell them what's really going on wouldn't she get mad or anything because I moved here a month ago she's not really my doctor my doctor is inflorida so my mom took me for a check up and the doctor took me a urine sample and was asking me all these questions that I wanted to reply to but instead I denied them I don't want to get in trouble she suned the urine to the labortory so I don't want to cause her problems and make her do everything again if I tell her to not say anything to my mom will she keep quiet?even dough we met

[DoulaLC]

So your doctor has checked your hormones? If you've had any blood work done, that is likely one of the things looked at. Certainly should be checked before any medication is used.

Newborns will sometimes show signs of hormones in their systems that are from their mother. Genitals may be swollen, little girls may have some discharge from their vagina, both boys and girl may leak some breastmilk.

[DoulaLC]

Your doctor will not discuss it with your mother unless you were to give permission to do so. Give yourself some peace of mind... speak to your Aunt, as GirlWSlingshot suggested. Have her take you either to your doctor's or to planned parenthood. They do have them in New York. Chances are your doctor put in for a pregnancy test with your urine as one of the things to check, so you would be notified if it were to come back positive.

[worriedgirl_09]

Your doctor will not discuss it with your mother unless you were to give permission to do so. Give yourself some peace of mind.....speak to your Aunt, as GirlWSlingshot suggested. Have her take you either to your doctor's or to planned parenthood. They do have them in New York. Chances are your doctor put in for a pregnancy test with your urine as one of the things to check, so you would be notified if it were to come back positive.

I've heard a myth saying the when you urinate clear means that your pregnant is that true??

[worriedgirl_09]

just one more thought... If you don't feel comfortable discussing your sexual experience with your doctor in front of your mother, you might want to ask for some privacy. Perhaps just tell your mom that now that you're becoming a young woman, you'd like to have your checkups by yourself.

Always be as open as you can be with your doctor, he can't take proper care of you if he doesn't have all the facts. And i have to agree with doula, sex isn't something that should be taken lightly. You have to protect yourself. And you should really know more about your own body and the act of sex before attempting it again.

Hey I'm sorry to bother but its da time were I'm suppose to get my period and yes I did but on da 6 the day before my period I spotted at first and the next day actual day I started bleedin heavy like always on the day on my menstrual cycle but now today it's the 8 and its not heavy anymore its light not very light medium it doesn't fill up my whole pad half what does this mean?I've never spotted before but I think this happen because my period got triggered to come early when it was really suppose to when I lost my virginity am I rite?? Help

[DoulaLC]

Clear urine does not mean you are pregnant, it is most often associated with being well hydrated. Many women start slow with just spotting or light bleeding on their period, have a heavier day or two and then it lightens up a bit at the end again. The flow may change now and then just normally.