[thoughtiwastheman]

When she hints or even slightly mentions the possibility of taking a break.

[hungtoronto]

This is an excellent thread!!!

My red alert list:D

1. She switch off the phone every night before she sleeps. She apologize " Im so worry for the radiation didnt you watch tv?" LIE No1 A cellphone in 10 feet distance when you sleep can't harm you. Not even a fireplace can warm you from this far away.:rolleyes:

2. She never had a serious disagreement with you. Actually she avoids them. Always!

3. You have never see her wallet but you are ready to buy a new one for you because it is a wreck with this "open close open close" every time you go out with your gf. Unless you are Bill Gates and you are reading these lines right now(Hi Bill:D) you should start worry for your gf. Does she really respects your life and your fatigue at work? Stop pay for everything and watch her reactions....:rolleyes:

4. Hello. i just call to say do you love me?
Oh really? After a year or two that you sleep together, you go vacations together, you make plans for your future she suddenly wonders?
Enough said.:cool:

5. Sex!
Not tonight i have a terrible headache or lets see a dvd or (fill some women excuses for me:p). Sooner or later she will tell you the big truth. "I see you as my friend" and she will mean it.

6. Does she ALWAYS answers an incoming sms in front of you? Hows her reaction when she reads the message? Body language is an easy way to uncover a liar!

The list could be so long but i don't speak english very well so i stop here.

PS.Be like Hercule Poirot. Watch every sign that you dont like in your relationship and take care of them before its too late...

#3 is the common one I think. Guys are gentleman at first but I think some women expect it to be like that all the time and as soon as you stop she's gone.

[liz28]

I just wanted to say that everyone knows when something isn't right because not only do they see it, they feel it.

Now some people tend to ignore the red flags because they might not be ready to leave or think they can change the person. I pay attention to everything and pay attention to all the red flags. That's why we have our senses but sadly some people don't use it and stay in an dead end relationship for whatever reasons.

I just hate to see a person complaint when all the signs are serve to them on a platter.

[Paininside1234]

When they go on a trip and suddenly stop saying through love you

When there young and their parents hate you

When they don't want to sacrifice

[odilians10]

When a guy never calls u when he says he would

[Romefalls19]

Odilians, I wouldn't take that as a red flag, maybe if it happens all the time. There are times I can't get my lunch at a certain time to call my fiancé, doesn't mean I am trying to walk away, just means I was busy at that specific time.