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talaniman · Oct 19, 2008, 11:46 AM

Learning together and having patience has it's rewards.

Had to spread the rep, but that is so true.

kitten420 · Oct 19, 2008, 06:36 PM

So I Told you guys I would stay updated. Well Last night I wrote my boyfriend a letter on myspace. I told him exactly how I felt and that I hoped he would just understand how I feel and we can come to an agrement on things. And etc. he called me today when I got off work, he said that he loved me and that he wants to talk about it when he comes back home in the morning. (he is at his moms in michigan) So to me I believe that this is a big step and I have a feeling that our communication will be better and our relationship will grow stonger because we will now understand eachothers values . I am so happy that he didn't get angry with me. I know everything will be fine now.

kitten420 · Oct 21, 2008, 06:04 PM

Well we talked about it today when he woke up. He said that he undertsands how I feel. He does trust me but its hard to trust anyone again after what his ex did to him. So we both decided that if we are going to a party we both will go together bc/ we both also agree that if your going to a party you should want your lover with you to enjoy the great time your having so we can both have a great time together. I am glad we both compromised and came to a understanding. I still know though that it will be a while before he can trust again.so it will take time. We also said that every time we feel like something is wrong or we need to talk about something we don't agree on with each other... then we will talk about it and come to an agreement on the situation and we will try and understand how the other one feels.

talaniman · Oct 21, 2008, 06:09 PM

Good to hear, as that's what a relationship is about. Talking to each other, and working together, and making babies, to drive you crazy.

Chery · Oct 25, 2008, 04:58 AM

If you have the patience and he's worth it to you, then you are doing just great. It takes a while to help anyone forget their past and look toward a better future. At least he's willing to try and that says a lot for how he really feels.

Again, good luck dear and keep us posted.

kitten420 · Oct 25, 2008, 09:14 AM

Originally Posted by talaniman

good to hear, as thats what a relationship is about. Talking to each other, and working together, and making babies, to drive you crazy.

I agree... lol