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    Oct 22, 2008, 09:30 PM

    HE has lost control of you; wants to know that you're still his puppet IF HE wants... show your independence now to him by not talking to him or making those conversations short and to the point if you do pick up that line... YOU take control of you. Say you're busy, out the door with plans... have to go now bye and then hang up.
    HE needs to realize that you are a person and he needs to respect that and respect you; he won't because he's seen you and knows your buttons to push.
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    Oct 22, 2008, 09:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AskJenny View Post
    HE has lost control of you; wants to know that you're still his puppet IF HE wants....show your independence now to him by not talking to him or making those conversations short and to the point if you do pick up that line...YOU take control of you. Say you're busy, out the door with plans...have to go now bye and then hang up.
    HE needs to realize that you are a person and he needs to respect that and respect you; he won't because he's seen you and knows your buttons to push.
    Do you mean that he knows he cannot control me anymore, so he stop contacting me?
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    Nov 13, 2008, 07:37 PM

    Hi again everyone. I want to thank you all who has posted here.. thanks for the advice =) Few weeks has passed and I can't believe I can actually got out of this situation by doing no contact rule! I feel so much better now =)
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    Nov 13, 2008, 07:40 PM

    Always good to hear someone has come out feeling better.

    Good for you :)
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