Originally Posted by
Romefalls19
That was my main issue with the whole situation. The fact that I would be placed into a situation where if things go badly I have no out because I am in their house. Meeting in a neutral place would have been better but he would not hear that, he wanted it on his terms. That was another reason why I thought it would be more confrontational than a peaceful meeting.
Tal is right about the abuse to the children and teaching them to hate is abuse. We are looking to get full custody and supervised visits for him just a matter of the court system but we are documenting everything they come home saying each time they see him
Wiked, it will be difficult to look him in the eyes and shake his hand but I will swallow the difficult pill for the sake of the children and making things go smoothly when we do finally meet which won't be for awhile until he can come to terms with knowing that his ex has moved on and is not coming back
Big Red flag there not wanting to meet on neutral ground he obviously had other intentions besides just being friendly.
I know it will be difficult and that day may never really come to it if he does not change because courts do not take kindly to what he is doing. Good luck
